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demure

American  
[dih-myoor] / dɪˈmyʊər /

adjective

demurer, demurest
  1. characterized by shyness and modesty; reserved.

    Synonyms:
    retiring
    Antonyms:
    indecorous
  2. affectedly or coyly decorous, sober, or sedate.

    Antonyms:
    indecorous

demure British  
/ dɪˈmjʊə /

adjective

  1. sedate; decorous; reserved

  2. affectedly modest or prim; coy

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Related Words

See modest.

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Etymology

Origin of demure

First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English dem(e)ur(e) “well-mannered, grave,” from Anglo-French demuré, past participle of demurer “to demur”; perhaps influenced by Old French mur, mëur “grave, mature” (from Latin matūrus ); see origin at demur

Explanation

A demure person can be described as polite and a little shy. A demure outfit is a modest one — think high neckline and low hem. Demure is a word you don't hear a lot these days, but it used to be a huge compliment for a woman or a girl, for them to be considered shy and quiet and modest. The word demure comes from an French term that means "sober, grave, or serious."

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Demure didn’t just fall out of a coconut tree.

From Salon • Aug. 25, 2024

Eager to leave North Carolina, Ghee came to New York at 18 to attend the American Musical and Dramatic Academy and began performing in drag clubs as Crystal Demure.

From New York Times • May 10, 2023

Demure white blooms dotted with green nod at the top of 4-inch stems and grassy foliage.

From Seattle Times • Oct. 1, 2022

Demure packaging includes a scolding from Mrs. Patmore on the back of the label: “You know the trouble with you lot? You are in love with the wrong people!”

From Slate • Dec. 30, 2013

Demure and reserved, the forty-seven-year-old Namba was forty minutes away from becoming the oldest woman to climb Everest and the second Japanese woman to reach the highest point on each continent, the so-called Seven Summits.

From "Into Thin Air" by Jon Krakauer