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demur

American  
[dih-mur] / dɪˈmɜr /

verb (used without object)

  • demurs,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • demurred,
    past participle,  past
  • demurring
    present participle
  1. to make objection, especially on the grounds of scruples; take exception; object.

    They wanted to make him the treasurer, but he demurred.

    Antonyms:
    assent, accede, agree, acquiesce
  2. Law. to interpose a demurrer.

  3. Archaic. to linger; hesitate.


noun

  1. the act of making objection.

  2. an objection raised.

    Synonyms:
    misgiving, qualm, scruple
  3. hesitation.

  4. Law: Obsolete. a demurrer.

demur British  
/ dɪˈmɜː /

verb

  1. to raise objections or show reluctance; object

  2. law to raise an objection by entering a demurrer

  3. archaic to hesitate; delay

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. the act of demurring

  2. an objection raised

  3. archaic hesitation

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of demur

1175–1225; Middle English demuren < Anglo-French demurer, Old French demorer < Latin dēmorārī to linger, equivalent to dē- de- + morārī to delay, derivative of mora delay

Explanation

If your mother asks you to clean your room and you refuse, you demur. And if your friend invites you to the Death Metal Forever concert but you hesitate, you demur. Whether you object, politely disagree, or hesitate, you demur. If Aunt Tilly offers to knit you a sweater, you might politely demur, being reluctant to accept. When she describes the bunnies she plans for the sweater, you would want to strongly demur, explaining that you are moving to Texas next week and will no longer need sweaters. And if you find yourself the defendant in a civil suit, you might file a demurrer, objecting to the plaintiff’s complaint. When you file that demurrer, you also demur.

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I demur, along with members of the British royal family apparently.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 5, 2025

“State of the Union” put Musk’s post on the screen and host Jake Tapper read it to DeSantis before pressing him to condemn it — but the governor continued to demur.

From Seattle Times Nov. 19, 2023

They did, however, demur from telling what both referred to ominously as “the fart story.”

From New York Times Nov. 3, 2022

Ask Heinicke or Turner how far he can go, how good he can be, and they’ll demur.

From Washington Post Sep. 25, 2021

Anytime a reporter asked whether he’d join the race for president, Barack would demur, saying simply, “I'm still thinking about it. It’s a family decision.”

From "Becoming" by Michelle Obama

When Leontes implores his friend to extend his stay, he demurs.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 12, 2026

“I think it’s just kind of endearing and pretty damn accurate,” Robby demurs.

From Salon Jan. 8, 2026

Asked how she felt about being brought up in relation to the Lively drama, Meester demurs.

From Los Angeles Times May 1, 2025

Burton demurs when asked about what he wants to shoot next.

From BBC Oct. 24, 2024

Still, he demurs; what would her parents think?

From "The Namesake" by Jhumpa Lahiri

Piker demurred, but I wasn’t surprised by the line of questioning.

From Slate Aug. 7, 2026

Jennings demurred, though he too claimed he had a great 20-minute conversation with McConnell.

From Salon Jul. 10, 2026

But other Australian states have demurred from similar actions.

From BBC Mar. 29, 2026

Japan has so far demurred, citing legal obstacles to venturing into a war zone.

From The Wall Street Journal Mar. 28, 2026

Before we began, Daliwonga invited Mda and Letlaka and his brother, George, to participate, but they demurred, preferring to listen to the two of us.

From "Long Walk to Freedom" by Nelson Mandela

After months of demurring, citing concerns about the weapons’ use and saying they were not necessary, U.S. officials have recently signaled a shift.

From New York Times Jul. 6, 2023

So far, McConnell is demurring and saying that Biden and McCarthy need to work this out themselves.

From Seattle Times May 5, 2023

Stewart’s primary complaint—and his reason for demurring as long as he did—was exactly what he said when he ultimately went on the air.

From Slate Apr. 25, 2023

After months of demurring, the Los Angeles County Museum of Art has made public a floor plan for its new building, designed by Swiss architect Peter Zumthor.

From Los Angeles Times Sep. 17, 2020

After they had been seated about the middle room with demurring and unwillingness to take seats, for politeness, Wang Lung went into the kitchen to bid the woman serve.

From "The Good Earth" by Pearl S. Buck

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