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demur

American  
[dih-mur] / dɪˈmɜr /

verb (used without object)

  • demurs,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • demurred,
    past participle,  past
  • demurring
    present participle
  1. to make objection, especially on the grounds of scruples; take exception; object.

    They wanted to make him the treasurer, but he demurred.

    Antonyms:
    assent, accede, agree, acquiesce
  2. Law. to interpose a demurrer.

  3. Archaic. to linger; hesitate.


noun

  1. the act of making objection.

  2. an objection raised.

    Synonyms:
    misgiving, qualm, scruple
  3. hesitation.

  4. Law: Obsolete. a demurrer.

demur British  
/ dɪˈmɜː /

verb

  1. to raise objections or show reluctance; object

  2. law to raise an objection by entering a demurrer

  3. archaic to hesitate; delay

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. the act of demurring

  2. an objection raised

  3. archaic hesitation

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of demur

1175–1225; Middle English demuren < Anglo-French demurer, Old French demorer < Latin dēmorārī to linger, equivalent to dē- de- + morārī to delay, derivative of mora delay

Explanation

If your mother asks you to clean your room and you refuse, you demur. And if your friend invites you to the Death Metal Forever concert but you hesitate, you demur. Whether you object, politely disagree, or hesitate, you demur. If Aunt Tilly offers to knit you a sweater, you might politely demur, being reluctant to accept. When she describes the bunnies she plans for the sweater, you would want to strongly demur, explaining that you are moving to Texas next week and will no longer need sweaters. And if you find yourself the defendant in a civil suit, you might file a demurrer, objecting to the plaintiff’s complaint. When you file that demurrer, you also demur.

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When their new neighbors asked where they were from, most would demur and say “Southern California” or “near Los Angeles.”

From Los Angeles Times ● Dec. 11, 2023

But ask him about Television, and he would often demur.

From Washington Post ● Jan. 30, 2023

Most virologists demur when asked about which variant — or variants — will be infecting people this winter.

From Seattle Times ● Oct. 18, 2022

But when pressed for what that might mean, they tended to demur, saying simply that, if called, they would serve their side in a conflict.

From New York Times ● Jan. 7, 2021

Anytime a reporter asked whether he’d join the race for president, Barack would demur, saying simply, “I'm still thinking about it. It’s a family decision.”

From "Becoming" by Michelle Obama

If your friend demurs at your offer to be your season companion courtside, share your view of what he has given you.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 16, 2026

As for whether he gets the credit he deserves for making that tournament possible, Rothenberg demurs.

From Los Angeles Times ● Jan. 13, 2026

“I think it’s just kind of endearing and pretty damn accurate,” Robby demurs.

From Salon ● Jan. 8, 2026

Burton demurs when asked about what he wants to shoot next.

From BBC ● Oct. 24, 2024

I offer a berry to Locke, but he demurs.

From "The Cruel Prince" by Holly Black

But when Iater asked El-Sayed what he was thinking in that moment, he more or less demurred.

From Slate ● Sep. 17, 2026

He demurred when I asked him for a grade on his tenure to date and instead talked about how Novo Nordisk—which has fallen behind in the GLP-1 wars despite creating the market—is changing.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Aug. 6, 2026

Jennings demurred, though he too claimed he had a great 20-minute conversation with McConnell.

From Salon ● Jul. 10, 2026

When asked about joining a list of Lakers coaches that includes Jackson and Pat Riley, Redick demurred.

From Los Angeles Times ● May 9, 2026

“It is not likely the Old Lord can sell all the land of his family without the agreement of his sons,” he demurred.

From "The Good Earth" by Pearl S. Buck

After months of demurring, citing concerns about the weapons’ use and saying they were not necessary, U.S. officials have recently signaled a shift.

From New York Times ● Jul. 6, 2023

So far, McConnell is demurring and saying that Biden and McCarthy need to work this out themselves.

From Seattle Times ● May 5, 2023

McDuffie himself has not said anything publicly about the idea, demurring when asked last year by The Washington Post whether he had considered running for mayor instead.

From Washington Post ● Apr. 29, 2022

After months of demurring, the Los Angeles County Museum of Art has made public a floor plan for its new building, designed by Swiss architect Peter Zumthor.

From Los Angeles Times ● Sep. 17, 2020

After they had been seated about the middle room with demurring and unwillingness to take seats, for politeness, Wang Lung went into the kitchen to bid the woman serve.

From "The Good Earth" by Pearl S. Buck

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