fray

¹ American  

[frey] / freɪ /

noun

1. a fight, battle, or skirmish.

   Synonyms:

   war, strife, encounter, clash, contest, conflict, combat

2. a competition or contest, especially in sports.

   Synonyms:

   tourney, meet, match, tournament

3. a noisy quarrel or brawl.

   Synonyms:

   fracas, riot, squabble, spat, set-to, tiff, dispute, fight, altercation, melee, tussle

4. Archaic. fright.

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verb (used with object)

1. Archaic. to frighten.

verb (used without object)

1. Archaic. to fight or brawl.

fray ² American  

[frey] / freɪ /

verb (used with object)

1. to wear (cloth, rope, etc.) to loose, raveled threads or fibers at the edge or end; cause to ravel out.

   Our old washing machine frayed all of our towels.

   Synonyms:

   wear out, tatter, ravel

2. to wear by rubbing (sometimes followed bythrough ).

3. to cause strain on (something); upset; discompose.

   All that arguing is fraying my nerves.

   Synonyms:

   chafe, stress, irritate

4. to rub.

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verb (used without object)

1. to wear into loose, raveled threads or fibers, as cloth; ravel out.

   My sweater frayed at the elbows.

2. to become strained or stressed.

   Jealousy could be a sign that your relationship is fraying.

3. to rub against something.

   tall grass fraying against my knees.

noun

1. a raveled or worn part, as in cloth.

   frays at the toes of well-worn sneakers.

fray ¹ British  

/ freɪ /

noun

1. a noisy quarrel

2. a fight or brawl

3. an archaic word for fright

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verb

1. (tr) to frighten

fray ² British  

/ freɪ /

verb

1. to wear or cause to wear away into tatters or loose threads, esp at an edge or end

2. to make or become strained or irritated

3. to rub or chafe (another object) or (of two objects) to rub against one another

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noun

1. a frayed place, as in cloth

fray Idioms  

1. see enter the lists (fray).

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Other Word Forms

Derived Forms

• frayed
  adjective

Etymology

Origin of fray¹

First recorded in 1350–1400; Middle English frai; shortening of affray

Origin of fray²

First recorded in 1375–1425; late Middle English fraien, from Old French frayer, freiier “to rub,” from Latin fricāre; see friction

Explanation

The word fray is all about friction. A frayed rope has been rubbed so much its fibers are wearing away. People experiencing friction are involved in a fray, or a noisy fight. If you have had a long day and feel like you're about to break down, you might say you are frayed. If students are arguing in class about whether nature or nurture is to blame for human problems, a teacher might stay out of the fray, letting the students reach their own conclusions.

Example Sentences

Nothing excited 16th-century Spaniards like the prospect of gold, and Fray Marcos’s report that the Seven Cities existed caused a sensation.

From The Wall Street Journal • Apr. 28, 2026

In 1538 Fray Marcos de Niza set out from Mexico City, the capital of New Spain, to investigate rumors that the Seven Cities lay somewhere in El Norte Misterioso, the Mysterious North.

From The Wall Street Journal • Apr. 28, 2026

Allende's header from a pass by Ian Fray put Miami up 2-0 in the 62nd minute.

From Barron's • Oct. 25, 2025

Shekells is one of four players who might make their Red Roses debut in York, including Ealing's Abi Burton, Leicester's Charlotte Fray and Exeter's Flo Robinson.

From BBC • Mar. 17, 2025

The preservation of her life just up to that moment astonished all, and especially the bishop Don Fray Domingo de Salaçar.

From The Philippine Islands, 1493-1898, Volume 30 of 55 Explorations by early navigators, descriptions of the islands and their peoples, their history and records of the catholic missions, as related in contemporaneous books and manuscripts, showing the political, economic, commercial and religious conditions of those islands from their earliest relations with European nations to the close of the nineteenth century, Volume XXX, 1640 by Abreu, Antonio Alvarez de

Related Words

• erode
• frazzle
• unravel
• wear away