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ingratiating

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[in-grey-shee-ey-ting] / ɪnˈgreɪ ʃiˌeɪ tɪŋ /

adjective

  1. charming; agreeable; pleasing.

  2. deliberately meant to gain favor.

    an ingratiating manner.


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Etymology

Origin of ingratiating

First recorded in 1635–45; ingratiat(e) + -ing 2

Explanation

If someone in your class places an apple on your teacher's desk in an ingratiating manner, that means he's making a calculated move to suck up and win your teacher's favor. The word ingratiating comes from a combination of the Latin prefix in- meaning "in" and gratia meaning "favor, grace." A person who is ingratiating is trying to get in the favor or grace of those around her. But the word doesn't always have to imply a sly attempt at winning others over, sometimes it can simply mean charming or agreeable. A person's smile can be ingratiating, winning people over simply with its charm.

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Ingratiating: Thank-you notes are meant to express gratitude and to provide a moment of joy for the sender and the recipient.

From Washington Post • Jul. 3, 2022

Ingratiating yourself with local political leaders, analysts say, is especially important for a second-tier candidate such as Mr. O’Malley, who lags far behind Mrs. Clinton and Mr. Biden in name recognition.

From Washington Times • Oct. 6, 2014

Ingratiating, self-effacing and ruggedly handsome, he was often assigned to photograph people who preferred not to be photographed.

From New York Times • Dec. 31, 2013

Ingratiating and frightening, a figure of simple, no, satanic charm, Lonesome Rhodes was not the sort of character that would endear Andy Griffith to his fans for the rest of his life.

From Time • Jul. 3, 2012

Ingratiating performances of these rarely heard, unaccompanied works.

From Time Magazine Archive