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disarming

American  
[dis-ahr-ming] / dɪsˈɑr mɪŋ /

adjective

  1. removing or capable of removing hostility, suspicion, etc., as by being charming.

    a disarming smile.

    Synonyms:
    winsome, engaging, winning

disarming British  
/ dɪsˈɑːmɪŋ /

adjective

  1. tending to neutralize or counteract hostility, suspicion, etc

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Other Word Forms

  • disarmingly adverb

Etymology

Origin of disarming

First recorded in 1540–50; disarm + -ing 2

Explanation

When something's disarming, it calms hostility. A disarming smile from you can transform what could have been a tense conversation with an angry neighbor. When you disarm a security system, it won't go off — everything is okay. The same thing happens when you act in a disarming way. A disarming gesture can make people feel less on their guard, like a famous actor whose disarming gesture shows he doesn't take himself so seriously after all. Disarming can also refer to the act of reducing military arms, or weapons.

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Gosling is typically terrific, but “Project Hail Mary” is practically tailor-made for his brand of disarming allure.

From Salon • Mar. 21, 2026

If Costanzo’s disarming enthusiasm for the role has been significant in mainstreaming “Akhnaten,” Holiday, who is a very different presence, may be the next step.

From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 5, 2026

The group has sought to present itself as a responsible security partner and has regularly published Telegram posts about everything from assisting local residents to disarming militants.

From Barron's • Jan. 9, 2026

The strategy rests on what Mr Bogad calls the "irresistible image" - often silly, it's a "disarming and charming" display that calls attention to your ideas without obviously explaining them to a viewer.

From BBC • Dec. 27, 2025

But his walk had an energetic, feline spring, and there was a disarming, self-mocking lilt to his voice.

From "The Incorrigible Children of Ashton Place: Book I: The Mysterious Howling" by Maryrose Wood