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ingratiating

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[in-grey-shee-ey-ting] / ɪnˈgreɪ ʃiˌeɪ tɪŋ /

adjective

  1. charming; agreeable; pleasing.

  2. deliberately meant to gain favor.

    an ingratiating manner.


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Etymology

Origin of ingratiating

First recorded in 1635–45; ingratiat(e) + -ing 2

Explanation

If someone in your class places an apple on your teacher's desk in an ingratiating manner, that means he's making a calculated move to suck up and win your teacher's favor. The word ingratiating comes from a combination of the Latin prefix in- meaning "in" and gratia meaning "favor, grace." A person who is ingratiating is trying to get in the favor or grace of those around her. But the word doesn't always have to imply a sly attempt at winning others over, sometimes it can simply mean charming or agreeable. A person's smile can be ingratiating, winning people over simply with its charm.

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To begin with, there’s its ingratiating style, leisurely but leavened with wit and chutzpah, as well as Fiedler’s pervasive disdain for the sentimental and ersatz.

From The Wall Street Journal May 22, 2026

He made the most of this connection, flying the Welsh flag and ingratiating himself with locals, who fell for the charms of "this lovely man".

From BBC Dec. 31, 2025

Thus far, he seems to have done a terrible job of ingratiating himself to others: Most recently, the office’s top criminal prosecutor resigned rather than follow his allegedly improper orders.

From Slate Feb. 20, 2025

It’s not especially tart and is undeniably over-padded, but its charms and ingratiating likability remain intact.

From New York Times Jan. 11, 2024

He almost continually flashed about the room the ingratiating boyish smile.

From "The Autobiography of Malcolm X" by Alex Malcolm X;Hailey

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