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ingratiating

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[in-grey-shee-ey-ting] / ɪnˈgreɪ ʃiˌeɪ tɪŋ /

adjective

  1. charming; agreeable; pleasing.

  2. deliberately meant to gain favor.

    an ingratiating manner.


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Etymology

Origin of ingratiating

First recorded in 1635–45; ingratiat(e) + -ing 2

Explanation

If someone in your class places an apple on your teacher's desk in an ingratiating manner, that means he's making a calculated move to suck up and win your teacher's favor. The word ingratiating comes from a combination of the Latin prefix in- meaning "in" and gratia meaning "favor, grace." A person who is ingratiating is trying to get in the favor or grace of those around her. But the word doesn't always have to imply a sly attempt at winning others over, sometimes it can simply mean charming or agreeable. A person's smile can be ingratiating, winning people over simply with its charm.

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He would begin a performance with Glass at the piano, bestowing an ingratiating quality of quiet pleasure on Ginsberg’s flowery imagery.

From Los Angeles Times May 21, 2026

The bright, ingratiating and charismatic Saqib is a servant’s son on the Atars’ country estate.

From The Wall Street Journal Jan. 2, 2026

The theory, perhaps, is that ingratiating themselves to the locals during this week's tune-ups might soften the vitriol which comes their way over the weekend.

From BBC Sep. 24, 2025

In person he’s ingratiating, charming, eager to please.

From Slate Oct. 26, 2024

Her teeth were crooked, but there was something ingratiating about that smile.

From "A Dance with Dragons" by George R. R. Martin

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