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ingratiating

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[in-grey-shee-ey-ting] / ɪnˈgreɪ ʃiˌeɪ tɪŋ /

adjective

  1. charming; agreeable; pleasing.

  2. deliberately meant to gain favor.

    an ingratiating manner.


Other Word Forms

  • ingratiatingly adverb
  • uningratiating adjective

Etymology

Origin of ingratiating

First recorded in 1635–45; ingratiat(e) + -ing 2

Explanation

If someone in your class places an apple on your teacher's desk in an ingratiating manner, that means he's making a calculated move to suck up and win your teacher's favor. The word ingratiating comes from a combination of the Latin prefix in- meaning "in" and gratia meaning "favor, grace." A person who is ingratiating is trying to get in the favor or grace of those around her. But the word doesn't always have to imply a sly attempt at winning others over, sometimes it can simply mean charming or agreeable. A person's smile can be ingratiating, winning people over simply with its charm.

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To investigators in the U.K., what’s glaring instead is that his ingratiating friends leaked privileged financial information to the former banker that he might have parlayed into insider-trading gains.

From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 13, 2026

The theory, perhaps, is that ingratiating themselves to the locals during this week's tune-ups might soften the vitriol which comes their way over the weekend.

From BBC • Sep. 24, 2025

In person he’s ingratiating, charming, eager to please.

From Slate • Oct. 26, 2024

His smile is both practiced and ingratiating; his eyes seem darker than this film’s eerily black ocean, like velvet curtains tightly drawn.

From Seattle Times • Apr. 4, 2024

“Daddy hasn’t wasted any time in ingratiating himself,” Kainene said in his ear.

From "Half of a Yellow Sun" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie