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patronizing

American  
[pey-truh-nahy-zing, pa-] / ˈpeɪ trəˌnaɪ zɪŋ, ˈpæ- /

adjective

  1. displaying or indicative of an offensively condescending manner.

    a patronizing greeting, accompanied by a gentle pat on the back.


patronizing British  
/ ˈpætrəˌnaɪzɪŋ /

adjective

  1. having a superior manner; condescending

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does patronizing mean? Patronizing is an adjective that means displaying condescension toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that it’s actually kind or helpful to that person. Patronizing can be used to describe a person or their words, tone, attitude, or actions. Patronizing is also the continuous (-ing) form of the verb patronize, which means to act toward someone in this way. (A separate sense of patronize means to be a customer—or patron—of a business or other establishment.)Being patronizing often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Example: Don’t be so patronizing, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.

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Etymology

Origin of patronizing

First recorded in 1720–30; patronize + -ing 2

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Explanation

If you are patronizing, you tend to speak down to others, acting as though you are smarter, classier, or just plain better than anyone else. For the record, your snobby attitude is not impressing anyone. A "patron" is someone who subsidizes or finances another person or organization — usually an artist or charitable institution. So the word patronizing stems from this idea of someone bestowing money or help on another. Today, the sense of condescension is strongly attached to the adjective, while the word "patron" is still a positive description of someone who gives.

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Patronizing and supporting them feels like a statement, a declaration in favor of free speech and intellectual pursuit.

From Salon • Jun. 3, 2023

Patronizing Amazon and also questioning them getting a deal like this is literally NOT hypocritical.

From New York Times • Nov. 14, 2018

Patronizing a local merchant or business means revenue for a small business which in turn equal tax revenue, which support efforts of local government.

From Washington Times • May 3, 2017

Patronizing a debate opponent is always potentially perilous, and George Bush fell into that trap in 1984 when he went up against Geraldine A. Ferraro, the first woman on a major party ticket.

From New York Times • Oct. 3, 2016

Patronizing and insulting voters is not a good way to get their support.

From US News • Jun. 4, 2014

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