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shrinking violet

American  

noun

  1. a shy, modest, or self-effacing person.


shrinking violet British  

noun

  1. informal a shy person

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Etymology

Origin of shrinking violet

First recorded in 1925–30

Example Sentences

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They both said you don't want "a shrinking violet".

From BBC • Dec. 22, 2025

They are hardy — any flower that grows next to a freeway ain’t no shrinking violet.

From Los Angeles Times • Oct. 16, 2024

Mirren is no shrinking violet, and neither is the woman she portrays.

From Salon • Dec. 18, 2022

“She’s no shrinking violet, and when she has an idea she pursues it,” Mellor said.

From New York Times • Apr. 8, 2022

He had named her Violet after shrinking violet when she had started seeing Dr. Payne.

From "How the García Girls Lost Their Accents" by Julia Alvarez