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by-your-leave

American  
[bahy-yer-leev] / ˈbaɪ yərˈliv /

noun

  1. an apology for not having sought permission.


by-your-leave British  

noun

  1. a request for permission (esp in the phrase without so much as a by-your-leave )

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of by-your-leave

First recorded in 1910–15

Example Sentences

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If Chris’ idea of “doing you a favor” is unilaterally telling your kid “Hey, call me Dad” without so much as a by-your-leave beforehand, I’m concerned about what else he might think is a favor.

From Slate • Nov. 28, 2020

Her health minister harrumphed about international “free agents” doing as they pleased without so much as a by-your-leave from the Liberian government.

From New York Times • Oct. 30, 2014

Not content with this bizarre behavior, and without so much as a by-your-leave, he proceeded to distribute pieces of my entree onto the plates of the other diners.

From Slate • May 18, 2013

That these are extracted copiously without by-your-leave from authorized textbooks, should long have been obvious to everybody.

From Time Magazine Archive

Without so much as a by-your-leave from Mama or Aunt Loma, Miss Love was planning on getting rid of Granny’s belongings!

From "Cold Sassy Tree" by Olive Ann Burns

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