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gentility

American  
[jen-til-i-tee] / dʒɛnˈtɪl ɪ ti /

noun

  1. good breeding or refinement.

    Synonyms:
    propriety, decorum, grace, polish
  2. affected or pretentious politeness or elegance.

  3. the status of belonging to polite society.

  4. members of polite society collectively.


gentility British  
/ dʒɛnˈtɪlɪtɪ /

noun

  1. respectability and polite good breeding

  2. affected politeness

  3. noble birth or ancestry

  4. people of noble birth

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of gentility

1300–50; Middle English < Old French gentilite < Latin gentīlitāt- (stem of gentīlitās ), equivalent to gentīl ( is ) ( see gentle) + -itāt- -ity

Explanation

Anyone can be nice. Many people have good manners. But gentility is that rare kind of graciousness that is handed down from one elegant generation to the next. In the early 13th century, gentility described someone's social status, coming from the Old French word gentil, meaning "high-born, noble, of good family." Over time the word's meaning broadened to include those coming from a family whose members had a refined manner and an elegant way of expressing themselves — no title of nobility required, just as today anyone can be a gentleman (or woman).

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“One of benevolence and gentility, one where we accomplished useful tasks and made things that brought joy to people.”

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 4, 2026

I had thought that Fairhope, which some call “Mayberry by the Bay,” was a place where real Southern gentility had survived.

From Slate May 4, 2026

Its noble gentility has been subtly adding to the DNA of the California sound.

From Los Angeles Times Jun. 5, 2025

So what this shows about Richard Mack is that, in his eyes, one of the appeals of the constitutional sheriff movement is that they represent a sort of gentility that doesn't exist in policing anymore.

From Salon Sep. 28, 2024

I feel oppressed, too, by the mandatory gentility of Wal-Mart culture.

From "Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America" by Barbara Ehrenreich

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