noun
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respectability and polite good breeding
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affected politeness
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noble birth or ancestry
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people of noble birth
Other Word Forms
Etymology
Origin of gentility
1300–50; Middle English < Old French gentilite < Latin gentīlitāt- (stem of gentīlitās ), equivalent to gentīl ( is ) ( see gentle) + -itāt- -ity
Explanation
Anyone can be nice. Many people have good manners. But gentility is that rare kind of graciousness that is handed down from one elegant generation to the next. In the early 13th century, gentility described someone's social status, coming from the Old French word gentil, meaning "high-born, noble, of good family." Over time the word's meaning broadened to include those coming from a family whose members had a refined manner and an elegant way of expressing themselves — no title of nobility required, just as today anyone can be a gentleman (or woman).
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Example Sentences
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I had thought that Fairhope, which some call “Mayberry by the Bay,” was a place where real Southern gentility had survived.
From Slate • May 4, 2026
Du Maurier’s world is one of pinched gentility.
From The Wall Street Journal • Oct. 24, 2025
As Machiavelli went on to suggest, the master liar must never show any weakness or gentility; he must always be, or at least appear to be, brutal, exuding righteous anger, control, power.
From Salon • Aug. 30, 2023
Yet, thanks to Cloud, who brought gentleness and gentility to the role, the character could never be easily written off, or out, as a gangland plot device.
From Los Angeles Times • Aug. 1, 2023
"It's funny what a wonderful gentility you get in the bar of a big hotel," I said.
From "The Sun Also Rises" by Ernest Hemingway
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