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had been having

  • past perfect progressive
    of have.
    have
    verb (used with object)
    to possess; own; hold for use; contain.

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Three years ago, “Vanderpump Rules” stars Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix split after nine years when Madix learned that Sandoval had been having an affair with their co-star and friend Raquel Leviss for seven months.

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 3, 2026

Trump said the White House had been having “very good and productive” discussions with Iran’s government.

From MarketWatch Mar. 26, 2026

In fact Jenrick had been having many more secret discussions with Reform figures for four months including with the party's leader.

From BBC Jan. 15, 2026

But on Christmas Eve in 2015, Robert Rhodes found out about an affair that Mrs Rhodes had been having with a co-worker.

From BBC Dec. 12, 2025

He made a comment about the pleasant weather they had been having, but Anthony made no effort to put him at ease.

From "Votes for Women!" by Winifred Conkling