sympathize
Americanverb (used without object)
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to be in sympathy or agreement of feeling; share in a feeling (often followed bywith ).
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to feel a compassionate sympathy, as for suffering or trouble (often followed bywith ).
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to express sympathy or condole (often followed bywith ).
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to be in approving accord, as with a person or cause.
to sympathize with a person's aims.
- Synonyms:
- support, back, favor, approve, understand
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to agree, correspond, or accord.
verb
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to feel or express compassion or sympathy (for); commiserate
he sympathized with my troubles
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to share or understand the sentiments or ideas (of); be in sympathy (with)
Usage
What does sympathize mean? To sympathize with someone is to feel sympathy for them—to share their emotions, especially sadness. This is usually understood to mean that you feel bad for them because they are in a negative situation. The word sympathize can also mean to offer one’s sympathies or condolences, such as to someone who is in mourning. Sympathize also sometimes means to be supportive of or loyal to someone or something, such as a leader or cause, as in Many working class voters sympathize with the senator’s platform. The word sympathizer is especially used to refer to someone who sympathizes in this way. Someone who sympathizes can be described as sympathetic. Sympathetic can also be used to describe someone who causes you to sympathize with them. Some people use the word sympathize interchangeably or in overlapping ways with the word empathize, which means to have empathy—to imagine or try to deeply understand what someone is feeling or what it’s like to be in their situation. However, others distinguish the two terms by emphasizing the importance of empathizing with others (feeling their pain) as opposed to sympathizing with them (feeling sorry for them). Example: I’ve experienced the same thing, so I can sympathize.
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
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sympathizernoun
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presympathizeverb (used without object)
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nonsympathizingadjective
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unsympathizedadjective
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unsympathizingadjective
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nonsympathizinglyadverb
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sympathizinglyadverb
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unsympathizinglyadverb
Inflected Forms
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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sympathizesimple
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sympathizessimple
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have sympathizedperfect
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has sympathizedperfect
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am sympathizingprogressive
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are sympathizingprogressive
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is sympathizingprogressive
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have been sympathizingperfect progressive
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has been sympathizingperfect progressive
Past
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sympathizedsimple
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had sympathizedperfect
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was sympathizingprogressive
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were sympathizingprogressive
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had been sympathizingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of sympathize
First recorded in 1580–90; from Middle French sympathiser; from sympath(ie) sympathy + -iser -ize
Explanation
When you sympathize, you care about how someone else feels during a time of trouble. If you sympathize with your brother, whose best friend is moving away, you understand why he's feeling sad. When you sympathize, you care, so you might sympathize with the victims of an earthquake in a foreign country or a child who's waiting for her turn on a merry-go-round. Sympathize comes from the Greek sympathes, have a fellow feeling for. It's sometimes confused with empathize, which means putting yourself in someone else's shoes, rather than simply caring about them.
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Example Sentences
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One can sympathize with the urge of these young, educated workers to rebel against their situations.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Apr. 12, 2026
Still, the movie seems to sympathize with many Americans’ misplaced faith in the remoteness of nuclear war.
From Slate ● Mar. 13, 2026
"It's quite easy to make a version of that story where he's a sort of toxic incel male conspiracy theorist nut who you don't really sympathize with," he told AFP.
From Barron's ● Mar. 1, 2026
A valid view, but not one with which I can sympathize.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Dec. 5, 2025
Grandma would sympathize with me and make one more thing out of the flour sacks or secondhand material or even cut up her own clothing to make me something new.
From "March Forward, Girl" by Melba Pattillo Beals
He repeats the tall tales, and he sympathizes with their struggles with wanderlust and the challenge of finding civilian clothes that fit and are affordable.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Nov. 7, 2025
As his body fails him, he sympathizes more deeply with the dying planet, going so far as to declare to his bewildered loved ones that he is the Earth itself.
From Los Angeles Times ● Apr. 16, 2025
While he sympathizes with the occasional need to chill at home, he also notes it's unsettling that it's a wildly popular discourse.
From Salon ● Jan. 19, 2025
While he sympathizes with the financial challenges restaurants are facing, he said the charge “really kind of stung.”
From New York Times ● Mar. 11, 2024
Her eyes tighten, enough for me to know that some part of her sympathizes with me, even if she’ll never admit it.
From "An Ember in the Ashes" by Sabaa Tahir
We cheered the great acts, and sympathized with the poor ones.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Mar. 18, 2026
Johnson sympathized with the department’s lack of manpower but said, in a perfect world, wildlife officials would be able to flush the bear out and relocate it somewhere safer.
From Los Angeles Times ● Dec. 4, 2025
In 2023, according to New York Times polling, 34 percent of Democrats sympathized with Israel and 31 percent with Palestinians.
From Slate ● Oct. 23, 2025
Many people sympathized with the workers and even called for Costco to start revoking memberships.
From Salon ● Aug. 29, 2024
Farmer sympathized with the needs of the Ministry of Health, but he still hoped that the loan could be divided fifty-fifty.
From "Mountains Beyond Mountains" by Tracy Kidder and Michael French
Hitchcock beguiles us into sympathizing with the psychopathic Bruno.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 10, 2026
Another supervisor came out and tried to defuse the situation, half lecturing, half sympathizing.
From Slate ● Oct. 10, 2025
Playing both roles has been therapeutic; it’s been an opportunity to voice my frustrations as a son while also sympathizing with the father character.
From Los Angeles Times ● Mar. 27, 2025
"Something about Bowen being the one to voice this joke despite his interview with Chappell sympathizing with her concerns less than a month ago makes me sad," one person wrote in a post to X.
From Salon ● Sep. 30, 2024
My little group of friends—only they’re not even my friends anymore—buffered by this new collection of girls who like me because I’m depressed and teachers who are sympathizing and the suddenly nice principal.
From "It’s Kind of a Funny Story" by Ned Vizzini
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