patronizing
Americanadjective
adjective
Usage
What does patronizing mean? Patronizing is an adjective that means displaying condescension toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that it’s actually kind or helpful to that person. Patronizing can be used to describe a person or their words, tone, attitude, or actions. Patronizing is also the continuous (-ing) form of the verb patronize, which means to act toward someone in this way. (A separate sense of patronize means to be a customer—or patron—of a business or other establishment.)Being patronizing often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Example: Don’t be so patronizing, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.
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Explanation
If you are patronizing, you tend to speak down to others, acting as though you are smarter, classier, or just plain better than anyone else. For the record, your snobby attitude is not impressing anyone. A "patron" is someone who subsidizes or finances another person or organization — usually an artist or charitable institution. So the word patronizing stems from this idea of someone bestowing money or help on another. Today, the sense of condescension is strongly attached to the adjective, while the word "patron" is still a positive description of someone who gives.
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Example Sentences
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The Australian leader's comments were condemned, however, by the outspoken activist Grace Tame who labelled them a "patronising cop out from a total coward".
From Barron's • Feb. 26, 2026
Those who backed assisted dying often spoke about patient choice, arguing it was patronising not to let people decide how they wanted to die.
From BBC • May 13, 2025
"We have a patronising relationship with the help and not a labour employment relationship," says Professor Neetha N from the Centre for Women's Development Studies.
From BBC • Feb. 12, 2025
The minister said it was right that politicians with "skin in the game in their local area" decided what worked for them and that the UK government worked collaboratively rather than "patronising" nations and regions.
From BBC • Jan. 9, 2025
Much of Showboat’s attitude to poverty and racial stereotypes seems to us somewhat patronising, but this was the 1920s and at its core is a well-intentioned heart.
From "The Story of Music" by Howard Goodall
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