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pleasantry

American  
[plez-uhn-tree] / ˈplɛz ən tri /

noun

plural

pleasantries
  1. good-humored teasing; banter.

  2. a humorous or jesting remark.

  3. a courteous social remark used to initiate or facilitate a conversation.

    to exchange pleasantries.

  4. a humorous action.


pleasantry British  
/ ˈplɛzəntrɪ /

noun

  1. (often plural) an agreeable or amusing remark, often one made in order to be polite

    they exchanged pleasantries

  2. an agreeably humorous manner or style

  3. rare enjoyment; pleasantness

    a pleasantry of life

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Etymology

Origin of pleasantry

1645–55; < French plaisanterie, Old French plesanterie. See pleasant, -ry

Example Sentences

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It’s unclear if this is a plea or a pleasantry.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 27, 2026

Norm doesn’t treat the inquiry — “How’s the world treating you, Norm?” — as perfunctory pleasantry.

From Los Angeles Times • May 21, 2025

In a different version of Washington — something in the ballpark of the old normal, whatever that was — the sentiment could be ignored as a boilerplate pleasantry.

From New York Times • Nov. 13, 2019

Murray seemed embarrassed, mumbled some pleasantry, then turned away.

From Scientific American • Jun. 6, 2019

Elizabeth tried to join in her father’s pleasantry, but could only force one most reluctant smile.

From "Pride and Prejudice" by Jane Austen