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self-control

American  
[self-kuhn-trohl, self-] / ˈsɛlf kənˈtroʊl, ˌsɛlf- /

noun

  1. control or restraint of oneself or one's actions, feelings, etc.

    Synonyms:
    levelheadedness, willpower, self-restraint, self-discipline

self-control British  

noun

  1. the ability to exercise restraint or control over one's feelings, emotions, reactions, etc

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Other Word Forms

  • self-controlled adjective
  • self-controlling adjective

Etymology

Origin of self-control

First recorded in 1705–15

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Explanation

Self-control is the quality that allows you to stop yourself from doing things you want to do but that might not be in your best interest. For example, without self-control, you might burp and curse nonstop. Have you ever had a potato chip or two and pretty soon you’ve eaten the whole bag? Eating a whole bag of chips shows little self-control. Not charging an expensive thing you want to a credit card takes self-control. Getting up early for work takes self-control. Without self-control, it's hard to get far in life. Self-control is similar to self-discipline.

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Holding back a child can be a good option to allow children extra time to develop self-control and self-regulation skills vital for the classroom, said Stanford professor Thomas Dee, who has studied red-shirting.

From Los Angeles Times • Mar. 24, 2026

The condition is linked to differences in brain function and development, particularly in areas involved in attention, self-control, and executive function.

From Science Daily • Mar. 17, 2026

Given the attention-sucking power of mainstream devices and software, "this is not about self-control anymore," Tang added.

From Barron's • Mar. 4, 2026

He credits his parents, neither of whom went to college, and the military for giving him a strong sense of self-control.

From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 16, 2026

Not every demonstrator had the self-control to obey the discipline of nonviolent resistance championed by Dr. King.

From "Because They Marched" by Russell Freedman