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standoffish

American  
[stand-aw-fish, -of-ish] / ˈstændˈɔ fɪʃ, -ˈɒf ɪʃ /
Or stand-offish

adjective

  1. somewhat aloof or reserved; cold and unfriendly.


standoffish British  
/ ˌstændˈɒfɪʃ /

adjective

  1. reserved, haughty, or aloof

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of standoffish

First recorded in 1855–60; standoff + -ish 1

Explanation

Someone who's standoffish is aloof or unfriendly. When you first meet someone, she might seem standoffish when really she's just shy. A politician who appears standoffish will have more trouble getting elected than one who seems warm and likable. The adjective standoffish is a great informal word for describing people who are reserved or haughty or cold. Standoffish comes from a now obsolete meaning of the phrase stand off, "hold aloof."

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Santa Monica is trying to become less standoffish to businesses in its comeback bid.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 6, 2026

Kirk is appealingly standoffish, if such a thing might be imagined.

From Los Angeles Times Feb. 7, 2026

He also knew his status - it was one of the reasons why he could appear standoffish to those he didn't know.

From BBC Oct. 21, 2023

Over the course of seven years, we saw them morph from standoffish children — often bullied because of the complexion of their skin — to two young, confident leaders.

From Seattle Times Aug. 4, 2023

“I suppose I can be standoffish sometimes,” he admitted.

From "A Tangle of Knots" by Lisa Graff

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