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standoffish

American  
[stand-aw-fish, -of-ish] / ˈstændˈɔ fɪʃ, -ˈɒf ɪʃ /
Or stand-offish

adjective

  1. somewhat aloof or reserved; cold and unfriendly.


standoffish British  
/ ˌstændˈɒfɪʃ /

adjective

  1. reserved, haughty, or aloof

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Other Word Forms

  • standoffishly adverb
  • standoffishness noun

Etymology

Origin of standoffish

First recorded in 1855–60; standoff + -ish 1

Explanation

Someone who's standoffish is aloof or unfriendly. When you first meet someone, she might seem standoffish when really she's just shy. A politician who appears standoffish will have more trouble getting elected than one who seems warm and likable. The adjective standoffish is a great informal word for describing people who are reserved or haughty or cold. Standoffish comes from a now obsolete meaning of the phrase stand off, "hold aloof."

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Kirk is appealingly standoffish, if such a thing might be imagined.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 7, 2026

Or maybe the grouchy, standoffish, self-righteous pain in the butt is a character that resonates in Denmark.

From New York Times • Mar. 13, 2024

Over the course of seven years, we saw them morph from standoffish children — often bullied because of the complexion of their skin — to two young, confident leaders.

From Seattle Times • Aug. 4, 2023

At a 1988 talk, the journalist Paul Goldberger asked Portman about the standoffish design of his Times Square Marriott Marquis.

From Slate • Jul. 28, 2023

The three females were more standoffish, but they didn’t seem to mind Marc coming onto their island.

From "My Life with the Chimpanzees" by Jane Goodall