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standoffish

American  
[stand-aw-fish, -of-ish] / ˈstændˈɔ fɪʃ, -ˈɒf ɪʃ /
Or stand-offish

adjective

  1. somewhat aloof or reserved; cold and unfriendly.


standoffish British  
/ ˌstændˈɒfɪʃ /

adjective

  1. reserved, haughty, or aloof

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of standoffish

First recorded in 1855–60; standoff + -ish 1

Explanation

Someone who's standoffish is aloof or unfriendly. When you first meet someone, she might seem standoffish when really she's just shy. A politician who appears standoffish will have more trouble getting elected than one who seems warm and likable. The adjective standoffish is a great informal word for describing people who are reserved or haughty or cold. Standoffish comes from a now obsolete meaning of the phrase stand off, "hold aloof."

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Santa Monica is trying to become less standoffish to businesses in its comeback bid.

From The Wall Street Journal • Jul. 6, 2026

Kirk is appealingly standoffish, if such a thing might be imagined.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 7, 2026

Yet at the outset, the US appeared strikingly standoffish.

From BBC • May 11, 2025

Or maybe the grouchy, standoffish, self-righteous pain in the butt is a character that resonates in Denmark.

From New York Times • Mar. 13, 2024

A family of them now reside in the New York Museum of Natural History, dead and stuffed, with standoffish glass eyes.

From "The Poisonwood Bible" by Barbara Kingsolver

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