themself

American  

[thuhm-self, them-] / ðəmˈsɛlf, ˌðɛm- /

pronoun

1. Nonstandard. themselves: The teacher introduced themself to the class.

   The kids began laughing at themself.

   Everyone who got the right answer can congratulate themself.

   The teacher introduced themself to the class.

2. a reflexive form of singular they, as used to refer to a nonbinary or gender-nonconforming person.

   Chris only posts memes that they created themself.

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Usage

Themself has a long history of use in English as a reflexive pronoun referring back to a plural antecedent ( the right of all citizens to protect themself ) or to a single generic or unspecified antecedent ( someone capable of speaking for themself ). In spite of historical use, in these contexts the pronoun themself is not considered to be standard English. A more acceptable alternative is the plural pronoun themselves , though its use with a singular antecedent is rejected as ungrammatical by many people. The singular antecedent is more commonly paired with the third person singular reflexive himself or herself, as recommended by traditional grammars ( someone capable of speaking for himself ). However, when themself is being used as part of a set of pronouns (including they, their, and them ) that refer back to a nonbinary or gender-nonconforming individual, it is a grammatical option to express reflexive meaning. Neither plural themselves nor gendered himself or herself completely suffice in this context. The grammaticality of nonbinary singular themself in this paradigm follows logically from the acceptability of singular they in this function: Andi is learning to put themself first, and prioritize their own happiness and mental health. See also they.

Etymology

Origin of themself

First recorded in 1350–1400; them ( def. ) + self ( def. )

Example Sentences

Likewise, a lawyer may not add themself to a client’s account without the client’s consent.

From MarketWatch • Mar. 3, 2026

Raised in Fife, Alon taught themself guitar as a teenager after finding an old instrument at their grandmother's house.

From BBC • Nov. 11, 2025

But in Escola’s relatively short time in their first starring role on Broadway, they’ve become something of a legend themself.

From Salon • Jun. 9, 2025

As each person entered, they were handed a white label and a Sharpie to create a name tag for themself.

From Slate • Apr. 30, 2025

They had trained themself to wake as the bus rounded the sharp S-curve just before their stop.

From "The 57 Bus" by Dashka Slater