tryst

[ trist, trahyst ]

noun

1. an appointment to meet at a certain time and place, especially one made somewhat secretly by lovers.

   Synonyms: rendezvous, assignation

2. an appointed meeting.

   Synonyms: rendezvous, assignation

3. an appointed place of meeting.

   Synonyms: rendezvous

verb (used with object)

1. Chiefly Scot. to make an appointment or arrange a meeting with.

verb (used without object)

1. Chiefly Scot. to make an appointment or agreement.

tryst

/ trɪst; traɪst /

noun

1. an appointment to meet, esp secretly
2. the place of such a meeting or the meeting itself

verb

1. intr to meet at or arrange a tryst

Derived Forms

• ˈtryster, noun

Other Words From

• tryster noun

Word History and Origins

Origin of tryst¹

First recorded in 1325–75; Middle English triste “appointed hunting-station,” from Old French, from Germanic; compare Gothic trausti “agreement, arrangement,” akin to Middle English trist “confidence,” Old English tryst (unrecorded); trow, trust

Word History and Origins

Origin of tryst¹

C14: from Old French triste lookout post, apparently of Scandinavian origin; compare Old Norse traust trust

Example Sentences

Turns out Kalckar was having an affair with Wright and wanted to keep their trysts secret.

From Nautilus

Picnics are welcome, and some nearby restaurants, including Tryst and Spacycloud, are offering “Brown Bag Movie Meals” to go.

From Washington Post

As someone who doesn’t relish cooking, my tryst with bebinca felt momentous.

From Eater

Or when in the midst of an uncomfortably aggressive tryst, Franklin forced Tara to take a bite out of his jugular.

From The Daily Beast

Their tryst, however, is broken up several times by messages playing from the answering machine and never comes to fruition.

From The Daily Beast

The video follows the twosome on their romantic tryst, from canoodling in bed to riding carefree in a convertible.

From The Daily Beast

Did the controversial stairwell tryst on Thursday night's 'Reign' premiere leave you hot and bothered?

From The Daily Beast

To LaVette, their affair was a tryst, but Redding wanted to marry her, even though his girlfriend at home was pregnant.

From The Daily Beast

And, at this first tryst in the sunshine, she was to set our wedding day.

From Project Gutenberg

The priest, again consulted, advised compliance; and the man went trembling to the tryst.

From Project Gutenberg

But if it failed—well, it would break her heart, but she'd have to keep the tryst, no matter what it cost her.

From Project Gutenberg

Some day he might stumble upon some tryst, or open a letter, or overhear a gossip's careless word.

From Project Gutenberg

In Hawthornes Transformation some of the principal characters keep a tryst under this same statue.

From Project Gutenberg

Related Words

• assignation
• rendezvous

More About Tryst

What does tryst mean?

A tryst is an appointment made to meet at a specific place and time, especially one made in secret by lovers, as in The two employees arranged a tryst for meeting secretly after work. 

Tryst is also the meeting itself or the place where the meeting will happen, as in Paul snuck out of his room and headed to the tryst.

Uncommonly, tryst can be used as a verb to mean to plan a meeting, as in Romeo and Juliet met outside the balcony and secretly trysted.   

Example: The married businessman denied all accusations that he had had a secret tryst with one of his female business partners.

Where does tryst come from?

The first records of tryst come from around 1325. It comes from the Old French triste, meaning a “lookout post” or “hunting station.” A distinguishing landmark like a lookout post would be an easy spot for hunters to find in order to meet up with each other. This kind of meeting was unlikely to result in romance—for the hunters or the hunted.

Today, the word tryst is often used in gossip articles or news stories about shocking love affairs. Because the word tryst is so often used to specifically mean secret romantic meetings, it is usually used when one of the people involved wants to keep the romance a secret, such as because they are in a relationship with someone else.

Did you know … ?

What are some other forms related to tryst?

• tryster (noun)

What are some synonyms for tryst?

• assignation
• rendezvous

What are some words that share a root or word element with tryst? 

• trysting place

What are some words that often get used in discussing tryst?

• romance
• secret
• scandalous

How is tryst used in real life?

Tryst is most often used to refer to secret romantic meetings.

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Try using tryst!

Is tryst used correctly in the following sentence?

After photos of the romantic date emerged, the singer admitted he had arranged a tryst with the lead guitarist.