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unbecoming

American  
[uhn-bi-kuhm-ing] / ˌʌn bɪˈkʌm ɪŋ /

adjective

  1. detracting from one's appearance, character, or reputation; unattractive or unseemly.

    an unbecoming hat; unbecoming language.

    Synonyms:
    unfit, unsuitable, unapt

unbecoming British  
/ ˌʌnbɪˈkʌmɪŋ /

adjective

  1. unsuitable or inappropriate, esp through being unattractive

    an unbecoming hat

  2. not proper or seemly (for)

    manners unbecoming a lady

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See improper.

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Etymology

Origin of unbecoming

First recorded in 1590–1600; un- 1 + becoming

Explanation

Use the adjective unbecoming when a person does something that's awkward or inappropriate, like using foul language at your grandmother's tea party. Sometimes the word unbecoming means "unattractive," as in, "I loved the light blue dress, but I thought the yellow dress was rather unbecoming." Behavior that is unattractive, especially in a particular setting or with certain people, can also be unbecoming. It's unbecoming to burp loudly at the opera. If it's impolite or unseemly, it's unbecoming. The word stems from becoming, which means attractive or tasteful.

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He was fired in June 2013 “for Conduct Unbecoming of a Clayton County Employee.”

From Seattle Times • Nov. 4, 2022

On this episode of Live at Politics and Prose, Anuradha Bhagwati discusses her book Unbecoming with Soraya Chemaly.

From Slate • May 3, 2019

There have been at least 19 books written about Sutcliffe, but, apart from one by a French feminist academic and Becoming Unbecoming, all are written by men.

From BBC • Nov. 1, 2015

Una, a pseudonym, wrote and drew Becoming, Unbecoming over five years.

From BBC • Nov. 1, 2015

At worst, I’d end up on the horns and expelled for Conduct Unbecoming a Member of the Arcanum.

From "The Name of the Wind" by Patrick Rothfuss