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untogether

American  
[uhn-too-geth-er] / ˌʌn tʊˈgɛð ər /

adjective

Slang.
  1. mentally or emotionally unstable.

    I was very untogether after the divorce.

  2. disorganized; chaotic.

    In their only live album, the band sounds discordant and untogether.


untogether British  
/ ˌʌntəˈɡɛðə /

adjective

  1. slang  incompetent or badly organized; mentally or emotionally unstable

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Etymology

Origin of untogether

First recorded in 1965–70; un- 1 + together

Example Sentences

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She also starred in the indie feature "Untogether" opposite Billy Crystal, Jamie Dornan, Scott Caan and Ben Mendelsohn.

From Fox News

Such is the story of this electronic duo of Raphaelle Standell and Alexander Kerby: After putting their romantic relationship to bed with the icy synth pop of 2013’s “Untogether,” they spent some time apart before reconvening and sonically recalibrating on 2017’s “Tenderness.”

From New York Times

When we first met, I’d written the script for Untogether, a film charting how something you’re determined to leave as a one-night stand arcs, against your wishes, into a love story.

From The Guardian

Before bed, I showed her the Untogether wrap present that Jemima Kirke had given me: she’d taken my wedding dress and dyed it dusky pink, so it could be worn to parties.

From The Guardian

As far as I can see, the main purpose of “Untogether” is to fetishize Jemima Kirke.

From New York Times