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upsetting

American  
[uhp-set-ing] / ʌpˈsɛt ɪŋ /

adjective

  1. tending to disturb or upset.

    an upsetting experience.


upsetting British  
/ ʌpˈsɛtɪŋ /

noun

  1. metallurgy the process of hammering the end of a heated bar of metal so that its width is increased locally, as in the manufacture of bolts

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of upsetting

First recorded in 1870–75; upset + -ing 2

Explanation

When something makes you feel worried or unhappy, it's upsetting. Learning some upsetting news right before bed can make it impossible to fall asleep. It's upsetting to lose your big chess tournament or have your dog run away. In fact, anything that causes you to feel disappointed, unsettled, or distressed is upsetting. For some people, clowns are hilarious; for others, they're deeply upsetting. This adjective's meaning comes from the verb upset, "turn over or capsize." Upsetting things make you feel like your life has been turned upside down — or upset.

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‘Lanterns’ co-creator Damon Lindelof has apologized for saying ‘Green’ is stupid and upsetting comic book fans and Grant Morrison.

From Los Angeles Times • May 18, 2026

"It was deeply shocking, and when you actually watch the victim's evidence, it's deeply upsetting."

From BBC • May 14, 2026

Unlike with data centers on Earth, SpaceX and Google wouldn’t have to worry about upsetting nearby residents, who often object to the projects.

From MarketWatch • May 12, 2026

Hair loss is one of the most upsetting side effects of cancer treatment, and many patients look for ways to bring their hair back.

From Science Daily • May 7, 2026

My weight being much greater than Dr. Trefusis’s, there was some danger of my upsetting the craft as I clambered aboard.

From "The Astonishing Life of Octavian Nothing, Traitor to the Nation, Volume II: The Kingdom on the Waves" by M.T. Anderson

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