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upsetting

American  
[uhp-set-ing] / ʌpˈsɛt ɪŋ /

adjective

  1. tending to disturb or upset.

    an upsetting experience.


upsetting British  
/ ʌpˈsɛtɪŋ /

noun

  1. metallurgy the process of hammering the end of a heated bar of metal so that its width is increased locally, as in the manufacture of bolts

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of upsetting

First recorded in 1870–75; upset + -ing 2

Explanation

When something makes you feel worried or unhappy, it's upsetting. Learning some upsetting news right before bed can make it impossible to fall asleep. It's upsetting to lose your big chess tournament or have your dog run away. In fact, anything that causes you to feel disappointed, unsettled, or distressed is upsetting. For some people, clowns are hilarious; for others, they're deeply upsetting. This adjective's meaning comes from the verb upset, "turn over or capsize." Upsetting things make you feel like your life has been turned upside down — or upset.

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Upsetting the supply could easily affect auto makers’ ability to keep production lines running smoothly.

From Barron's • Mar. 9, 2026

Upsetting as these demonstrations of classism and colorism are, Peggy and William’s seaside courtship is vital scenery infrequently dramatized in fictionalized histories.

From Salon • Aug. 11, 2025

Upsetting this system -- through shift work or long-distance travel over multiple time and light zones in humans, for example -- can have severe consequences.

From Science Daily • Dec. 28, 2023

Dean also called the feature, "Upsetting and hateful."

From Fox News • Aug. 12, 2019

Upsetting that inkwell was the kindest thing anybody ever did for me.”

From The Camp Fire Girls' Larks and Pranks or, The House of the Open Door by Frey, Hildegard G. (Hildegard Gertrude)

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