Idioms and Phrases with toy with
Amuse oneself idly with, trifle, as in He teased her, toying with her as a cat toys with a mouse. [Early 1500s]
Treat casually or without seriousness, as in I'm toying with the idea of writing a novel. [Early 1800s]
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