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alienate

American  
[ey-lee-uh-neyt, eyl-yuh-] / ˈeɪ li əˌneɪt, ˈeɪl jə- /

verb (used with object)

  • alienates,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • alienated,
    past participle,  past
  • alienating
    present participle
  1. to make indifferent or hostile.

    By refusing to get a job, he has alienated his entire family.

  2. to cause to be withdrawn or isolated from the objective world.

    Bullying alienates already shy students from their classmates.

  3. to turn away; transfer or divert.

    to alienate funds from their intended purpose.

  4. Law. to transfer or convey, as title, property, or other right, to another.

    to alienate lands.


alienate British  
/ ˈeɪlɪə-, ˈeɪljəˌneɪt /

verb

  1. to cause (a friend, sympathizer, etc) to become indifferent, unfriendly, or hostile; estrange

  2. to turn away; divert

    to alienate the affections of a person

  3. law to transfer the ownership of (property, title, etc) to another person

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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See estrange.

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Etymology

Origin of alienate

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin aliēnātus (past participle of aliēnāre “to transfer by sale, estrange”), equivalent to aliēn(us) “belonging to another, another's, foreign, alien ” + -ātus -ate 1

Explanation

When you alienate people, you make them stop liking or caring about you. Show up at a conference of cat lovers with a sign around your neck that says, "I hate kittens," and you'll learn firsthand what that means. Back in the days of Latin, before the word alien came to mean little green men from outer space, it described something or someone that was foreign or different or not known: an alien custom, an alien nation. When you alienate people, you make them WISH you were an alien, or at least that they could send you to the moon.

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A point they do argue — that picking on billionaires will alienate them, push them out of California and tank the state’s budget — is at least plausible.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 5, 2026

“If they change, they alienate the loyal customers,” he said.

From MarketWatch Jul. 28, 2026

On “The View,” he was calm, self-deprecating at times and careful not to alienate outright.

From Salon Jun. 17, 2026

But the companies are trying to be careful not to alienate generative AI users, who may have different expectations for responses to their prompts than they do for simpler search terms.

From The Wall Street Journal May 20, 2026

How could he have been so blind as not to see how dangerous it might be for him to alienate the one impartial party, his one potential ally?

From "The Secret History" by Donna Tartt

I stand up and talk about policy change, even when it alienates my allies.”

From Los Angeles Times Feb. 10, 2026

In the episode, Scotty Bristol is portrayed as a demanding, abrasive boss who alienates his writers.

From Salon Oct. 13, 2025

What alienates young people is how opera can often be presented.

From New York Times Jan. 20, 2024

Mr Jordan and his team will have to try to find ways to cajole or coerce his opponents into yielding while not doing so in a way that alienates his current crop of supporters.

From BBC Oct. 17, 2023

“These are just rumors and gossip. The proverbs say ‘He who harps on a matter alienates his friend.’

From "The Devil's Arithmetic" by Jane Yolen

With a few posts, they alienated the very supporters who championed them as living proof of redemption.

From Slate Aug. 6, 2026

Granted, neither Gallego nor Murphy have alienated their constituencies with these ideas, but it’s a far cry from their personas when they were first elected.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

She went on to be the UN rights chief, a sensitive role in which she alienated some countries, especially China, which mauled her for reporting on Beijing's alleged abuses of the country's Uyghur minority group.

From Barron's Jul. 23, 2026

She argues that Richmond, alienated from the king and disgusted by parliamentary passivity, kindled a printed firestorm in the public sphere.

From The Wall Street Journal Jun. 12, 2026

Unhappy, alienated, isolated lads are legion in schools, and voiceless in media, education, and politics.

From "Geeks: How Two Lost Boys Rode the Internet Out of Idaho" by Jon Katz

But the move risks alienating customers who already may be grumbling about the complex array of ticket options when it comes time to book a flight.

From MarketWatch Aug. 13, 2026

Any moves by China to tighten its grip on domestic models could risk alienating foreign users and slow global adoption, industry participants said.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 9, 2026

As Ethan, Stock was as perversely alienating as he was poignantly alienated.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 8, 2026

It’s only ironic that the film’s story doesn’t have the same inventive, thoughtful scope, only to avoid alienating anyone watching the movie on their iPad.

From Salon Jun. 21, 2026

Copernicus’s disciple Rheticus, in the first published account of the Copernican theory, held back any reference to heliocentrism for as long as he possibly could, for fear of alienating his readers.

From "The Invention of Science" by David Wootton

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