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abashed

American  
[uh-basht] / əˈbæʃt /

adjective

  1. ashamed or embarrassed; disconcerted.

    My clumsiness left me abashed.


abashed British  
/ əˈbæʃt /

adjective

  1. ill at ease, embarrassed, or confused; ashamed

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Other Word Forms

  • abashedly adverb
  • abashedness noun
  • unabashed adjective

Etymology

Origin of abashed

Middle English word dating back to 1300–50; abash, -ed 2

Explanation

If you feel abashed, you're embarrassed and a little uneasy. People feel abashed when they're caught in a lie, or make a mistake, or suddenly feel self-conscious for some reason. Feeling abashed isn't quite as painful as feeling ashamed, but it's close. When you're abashed, you're not feeling confident or strong: you're a little shaken up and taken aback. You feel embarrassed or chagrined. This is a word for a self-conscious, uneasy feeling––think caught with your hand in the cookie jar or your drinking out of the milk carton in the middle of the night.

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They are now out of pocket, short on players and, perhaps, abashed at their complicity.

From The Wall Street Journal • Nov. 6, 2025

“We have quite a lot of work to do,” Chiappe says, looking somewhat abashed.

From Los Angeles Times • Nov. 15, 2024

“We need money,” the older Gala blurts out to the abashed Dalí during one bellicose confrontation over his lack of productivity, “money, money!”

From New York Times • Jun. 8, 2023

Jarreau continues and Belafonte remains slightly abashed until his smile broadens, as if he's accepting his signature tune's supernaturally unifying power.

From Salon • Apr. 26, 2023

“Ha!” said Harry under his breath, pleased to see Draco looking both abashed and angry.

From "Harry Potter And The Chamber Of Secrets" by J. K. Rowling