noun
adjective
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causing abrasion; grating; rough
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irritating in manner or personality; causing tension or annoyance
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Etymology
Origin of abrasive
Explanation
What does an obnoxious person have in common with sandpaper? Both are abrasive. Anything that grates or irritates — physically or metaphorically — can be described using this adjective. The history of the word abrasive illustrates how a word typically enters the English language and then changes with time. The English verb abrade, "to wear down by scraping," entered the language from Latin abradere, "to scrape off," in the late 1600s. Some 200 years later, the adjective form of the word — abrasive — came into use to describe a type of grinding tool. By the 1920s, abrasive had acquired the more figurative sense of annoying and infuriating. If you find someone abrasive, he or she grinds away at your nerves.
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Example Sentences
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Altman's unassuming, friendly demeanor contrasted sharply with Musk's abrasive style, but they shared an entrepreneurial spirit and a penchant for risk-taking.
From Barron's • Apr. 24, 2026
This abrasive quality is what allows the sponge to "erase" stains.
From Science Daily • Apr. 18, 2026
Sparkling and rebarbative, abrasive and relentlessly performative, it is, in other words, classic Will Self.
From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 20, 2026
He is a big, abrasive scrummager - his line-out darts are maybe his weakest area.
From BBC • Mar. 16, 2026
And other times, for no apparent reason, he was angry and abrasive, his voice menacing.
From "The Best of Enemies" by Osha Gray Davidson
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