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against the grain

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  1. Opposed to one's inclination or preference, as in We followed the new supervisor's advice, though it went against the grain. This metaphor refers to the natural direction of the fibers in a piece of wood, called its grain; when sawed obliquely, or “against the grain,” the wood will tend to splinter. [c. 1600] For a synonym, see rub the wrong way.

Example Sentences

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Earlier this month, Poland’s central bank went against the grain.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 23, 2026

Many of our best picks resulted from a willingness to go against the grain with out-of-favor stocks—and impeccable timing.

From Barron's • Jan. 29, 2026

In the Paranjpye household, Irawati was exposed to a way of life that celebrated critical thinking and righteous living, even if that meant going against the grain of Indian society.

From BBC • Jan. 18, 2025

Where medical experts find mountains of studies and years of data to be conclusive, Kennedy goes zooming against the grain, for little apparent reason.

From Slate • Nov. 7, 2024

Though he had done his best to think it out, what he was doing was altogether against the grain of his nature.

From "The Two Towers" by J. R. R. Tolkien

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