agonizing
Americanadjective
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What does agonizing mean? Agonizing means filled with or resulting in agony—extreme pain or suffering, especially the kind that lasts for a long time. A close synonym is excruciating. Agony can be physical or emotional, and things that are agonizing can involve physical or emotional pain. A person who has just broken their leg and a person who has just experienced the death of a loved one could both be said to be in agonizing pain. To suffer an agonizing death is to experience an extremely painful one. An agonizing decision is one that is very hard to make due to being emotionally painful in some way. Agonizing is also the continuous tense (-ing form) of the verb agonize, which can mean to be in agony. However, it most commonly means to put forth a great effort—to struggle or strive, as in She’s been agonizing about what to get you for your birthday. Example: She’s down and appears to be in agonizing pain—the trainers are coming onto the field now to help her.
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Once she learned this, he added, finalizing her return wasn’t as agonizing.
From MarketWatch • Jun. 8, 2026
The singer and his wife, photographer Rachel Demy, were in the middle of an agonizing breakup that would eventually lead to divorce.
From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 5, 2026
The mysteries of this life can be more agonizing than any grief.
From Salon • May 25, 2026
It makes for an exhausting, agonizing, anxiety-ridden existence that dictates how John exists in public.
From Los Angeles Times • Apr. 24, 2026
Pong thought about the poor people he'd seen agonizing over buying Violet orbs at the Light Market.
From "A Wish in the Dark" by Christina Soontornvat
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