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alienate

American  
[ey-lee-uh-neyt, eyl-yuh-] / ˈeɪ li əˌneɪt, ˈeɪl jə- /

verb (used with object)

  • alienates,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • alienated,
    past participle,  past
  • alienating
    present participle
  1. to make indifferent or hostile.

    By refusing to get a job, he has alienated his entire family.

  2. to cause to be withdrawn or isolated from the objective world.

    Bullying alienates already shy students from their classmates.

  3. to turn away; transfer or divert.

    to alienate funds from their intended purpose.

  4. Law. to transfer or convey, as title, property, or other right, to another.

    to alienate lands.


alienate British  
/ ˈeɪlɪə-, ˈeɪljəˌneɪt /

verb

  1. to cause (a friend, sympathizer, etc) to become indifferent, unfriendly, or hostile; estrange

  2. to turn away; divert

    to alienate the affections of a person

  3. law to transfer the ownership of (property, title, etc) to another person

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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See estrange.

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Origin of alienate

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin aliēnātus (past participle of aliēnāre “to transfer by sale, estrange”), equivalent to aliēn(us) “belonging to another, another's, foreign, alien ” + -ātus -ate 1

Explanation

When you alienate people, you make them stop liking or caring about you. Show up at a conference of cat lovers with a sign around your neck that says, "I hate kittens," and you'll learn firsthand what that means. Back in the days of Latin, before the word alien came to mean little green men from outer space, it described something or someone that was foreign or different or not known: an alien custom, an alien nation. When you alienate people, you make them WISH you were an alien, or at least that they could send you to the moon.

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She steered clear of politics, saying she didn't want to alienate half her audience.

From BBC Aug. 25, 2026

A point they do argue — that picking on billionaires will alienate them, push them out of California and tank the state’s budget — is at least plausible.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 5, 2026

“At times like this you can see a glut of genre movies made by people who have no idea what they’re doing, and that can alienate audiences.”

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 10, 2026

You don’t want to alienate your mom or dad, or make them feel that you don’t support their late-in-life shot at romantic bliss.

From MarketWatch Jun. 30, 2026

How could he have been so blind as not to see how dangerous it might be for him to alienate the one impartial party, his one potential ally?

From "The Secret History" by Donna Tartt

In the episode, Scotty Bristol is portrayed as a demanding, abrasive boss who alienates his writers.

From Salon Oct. 13, 2025

If shifting the club’s priorities alienates some older members who happen to be among the club’s important donors, it would be justified, Pilch said.

From Los Angeles Times Oct. 27, 2024

He denies this assessment of his character, along with assertions that he alienates his fellow politicians.

From BBC Oct. 1, 2024

What alienates young people is how opera can often be presented.

From New York Times Jan. 20, 2024

“These are just rumors and gossip. The proverbs say ‘He who harps on a matter alienates his friend.’

From "The Devil's Arithmetic" by Jane Yolen

Luxury brands have alienated some shoppers by raising prices too quickly without much innovation.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 7, 2026

With a few posts, they alienated the very supporters who championed them as living proof of redemption.

From Slate Aug. 6, 2026

Granted, neither Gallego nor Murphy have alienated their constituencies with these ideas, but it’s a far cry from their personas when they were first elected.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

She went on to be the UN rights chief, a sensitive role in which she alienated some countries, especially China, which mauled her for reporting on Beijing's alleged abuses of the country's Uyghur minority group.

From Barron's Jul. 23, 2026

Burr had alienated Jefferson and the triumphant Republican party by his disloyalty as a vice president and had lost by a landslide in his bid to become a Federalist governor of New York.

From "Founding Brothers: The Revolutionary Generation" by Joseph J. Ellis

But the move risks alienating customers who already may be grumbling about the complex array of ticket options when it comes time to book a flight.

From MarketWatch Aug. 13, 2026

In a time when teen life is subsumed by alienating digital technology and an understandable risk-aversion, “Nimrods” takes the yearnings of its young punks seriously.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 5, 2026

"They're alienating a hell of a lot of people who are athletics fans and potential stalwarts within the sport."

From BBC Jul. 6, 2026

Now his social-media feuds are alienating potential allies and frustrating voters.

From The Wall Street Journal Jun. 30, 2026

If I preached unity, I must act like a unifier, even at the risk of perhaps alienating some of my own colleagues.

From "Long Walk to Freedom" by Nelson Mandela

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