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alienate

American  
[ey-lee-uh-neyt, eyl-yuh-] / ˈeɪ li əˌneɪt, ˈeɪl jə- /

verb (used with object)

alienates, present (3rd person singular) alienated, past participle, past alienating present participle
  1. to make indifferent or hostile.

    By refusing to get a job, he has alienated his entire family.

  2. to cause to be withdrawn or isolated from the objective world.

    Bullying alienates already shy students from their classmates.

  3. to turn away; transfer or divert.

    to alienate funds from their intended purpose.

  4. Law. to transfer or convey, as title, property, or other right, to another.

    to alienate lands.


alienate British  
/ ˈeɪlɪə-, ˈeɪljəˌneɪt /

verb

  1. to cause (a friend, sympathizer, etc) to become indifferent, unfriendly, or hostile; estrange

  2. to turn away; divert

    to alienate the affections of a person

  3. law to transfer the ownership of (property, title, etc) to another person

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See estrange.

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Origin of alienate

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English, from Latin aliēnātus (past participle of aliēnāre “to transfer by sale, estrange”), equivalent to aliēn(us) “belonging to another, another's, foreign, alien ” + -ātus -ate 1

Explanation

When you alienate people, you make them stop liking or caring about you. Show up at a conference of cat lovers with a sign around your neck that says, "I hate kittens," and you'll learn firsthand what that means. Back in the days of Latin, before the word alien came to mean little green men from outer space, it described something or someone that was foreign or different or not known: an alien custom, an alien nation. When you alienate people, you make them WISH you were an alien, or at least that they could send you to the moon.

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But Kim cannot afford to alienate his biggest source of aid either.

From BBC Jun. 7, 2026

Chinese policy advisers say doing so would alienate the Global South audience that has become central to Xi’s goal of reshaping the world order in Beijing’s favor.

From The Wall Street Journal May 19, 2026

In doing so, he struck a delicate balance, as he had to shift production in a way that didn’t alienate Chinese consumers or cede market share to domestic Chinese competitors.

From MarketWatch Apr. 21, 2026

But McLaughlin did not merely alienate the judiciary; she consistently undermined the administration’s legal arguments, sabotaging lawyers’ efforts to cover up unlawful conduct by boasting about it on social media.

From Slate Feb. 18, 2026

Without really meaning to, I manage to alienate everyone but the endocrinologists, and even some of them are put off by a remark I made concerning blood calcium levels in hypoparathyroidism.

From "Me Talk Pretty One Day" by David Sedaris

The more people dislike him, the more loudly announces he’s actually a deeply moral person, which is an obnoxious and off-putting lie that alienates people more.

From Salon Jun. 15, 2026

I stand up and talk about policy change, even when it alienates my allies.”

From Los Angeles Times Feb. 10, 2026

He denies this assessment of his character, along with assertions that he alienates his fellow politicians.

From BBC Oct. 1, 2024

“I’m trying not to do anything that alienates anyone. But I can’t just not do the right thing because I’m scared.”

From Seattle Times Dec. 18, 2023

“These are just rumors and gossip. The proverbs say ‘He who harps on a matter alienates his friend.’

From "The Devil's Arithmetic" by Jane Yolen

"I don't like crowds, I don't like clubs or drinking, so I just felt so alienated by it. Everyone else was looking beautiful and it was just not a great first Pride experience."

From BBC Jun. 20, 2026

His military experience “left me feeling very unmoored, it left me feeling very disillusioned, very alienated and very isolated.”

From The Wall Street Journal Jun. 3, 2026

“People are alienated from our current politics not because Americans are cynical, but because people recognize that they deserve better.”

From Los Angeles Times May 24, 2026

It also alienated voters in the district who had long supported him.

From Slate May 20, 2026

The ship, as the cliché says, was very small, and on the ship, I was correspondingly even more tiny, so that one would think I would feel dwarfed, alienated in some way.

From This Side of Wild by Gary Paulsen

Any moves by China to tighten its grip on domestic models could risk alienating foreign users and slow global adoption, industry participants said.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 9, 2026

As Ethan, Stock was as perversely alienating as he was poignantly alienated.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 8, 2026

"They're alienating a hell of a lot of people who are athletics fans and potential stalwarts within the sport."

From BBC Jul. 6, 2026

It’s only ironic that the film’s story doesn’t have the same inventive, thoughtful scope, only to avoid alienating anyone watching the movie on their iPad.

From Salon Jun. 21, 2026

Worried about alienating the boy, Franz said little during such outbursts and let him rant.

From "Into the Wild" by Jon Krakauer

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