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ambivalent

American  
[am-biv-uh-luhnt] / æmˈbɪv ə lənt /

adjective

  1. having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.

    The whole family was ambivalent about the move to the suburbs.

    She is regarded as a morally ambivalent character in the play.

  2. Psychology. of or relating to the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


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Etymology

Origin of ambivalent

Back formation from ambivalence

Explanation

If you can't decide how you feel about something, declare yourself ambivalent about it. Ambivalent means "having mixed feelings about something." A Swiss psychologist named Eugen Bleuler coined the German word Ambivalenz in the early twentieth century, and it was soon imported into English. Bleuler combined the Latin prefix ambi-, meaning "both," with valentia, "strength." So etymologically speaking, if you're ambivalent you're being pulled by two equally strong things — but in practice, ambivalence often arises from caring very little either way. You might feel ambivalent about your lunch options if you have to choose between a murky stew and flavorless tofu.

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The third group is the truly ambivalent, where I sat.

From Slate Jul. 6, 2026

Even those ambivalent about China’s economy see positive signs on the ground for investors.

From Barron's Jun. 23, 2026

By the same token, I think a deep love of country can coexist with ambivalent feelings about how the national team performs on the field.

From Salon Jun. 15, 2026

A promising new cancer drug helped reduce the risk of death by 34% in patients with the most common form of lung cancer, but investors appeared to be ambivalent to the data.

From MarketWatch Jun. 1, 2026

When he looked ambivalent, I lied and said, “I’ve been practicing with my dad at home. Even he thinks I’m getting better.”

From "The Book of Unknown Americans" by Cristina Henríquez

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