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ball and chain

American  

noun

  1. a heavy iron ball fastened by a chain to a prisoner's leg.

  2. a burdensome restraint.

    The steady accumulation of small debts was a ball and chain to his progress.

  3. Facetious Slang: Often Offensive. a person's spouse or romantic partner, especially a female.

ball and chain British  

noun

  1. (formerly) a heavy iron ball attached to a chain and fastened to a prisoner

  2. a heavy restraint

  3. slang a wife

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ball and chain Idioms  

  1. A burden and restraint, as in Karen regarded her job as a ball and chain, but she needed the money. The term, dating from the early 1800s, alludes to chaining a heavy iron ball to a prisoner's leg. Later it was transferred to other kinds of restraining burden.

Sensitive Note

In the meaning “romantic partner,” this term is consciously used for humorous or playful effect. But it is often perceived as insulting, implying that the partner is a burden or restriction on the other partner.

Etymology

Origin of ball and chain

An Americanism dating back to 1825–35

Example Sentences

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High prices have hobbled Americans with a ball and chain.

From MarketWatch • Dec. 15, 2025

“I didn’t want to get a bad mortgage and be in a ball and chain situation where all I would be able to do is pay the mortgage,” Ms. Harper said.

From New York Times • May 9, 2024

As time went on, Veasley said her pain became like a ball and chain that got heavier and heavier.

From Salon • Oct. 9, 2023

Dominic Santana, who showed up in the jailhouse uniform complete with handcuffs and a plastic ball and chain, said he “wanted to join the circus.”

From Washington Times • Jun. 13, 2023

The moment the Tower came into view, a whole new weight added itself to the ball and chain of terror I was dragging behind me.

From "The Darkest Minds" by Alexandra Bracken

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