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ball and chain

American  

noun

  1. a heavy iron ball fastened by a chain to a prisoner's leg.

  2. a burdensome restraint.

    The steady accumulation of small debts was a ball and chain to his progress.

  3. Facetious Slang: Often Offensive. a person's spouse or romantic partner, especially a female.


ball and chain British  

noun

  1. (formerly) a heavy iron ball attached to a chain and fastened to a prisoner

  2. a heavy restraint

  3. slang a wife

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

ball and chain Idioms  
  1. A burden and restraint, as in Karen regarded her job as a ball and chain, but she needed the money. The term, dating from the early 1800s, alludes to chaining a heavy iron ball to a prisoner's leg. Later it was transferred to other kinds of restraining burden.


Sensitive Note

In the meaning “romantic partner,” this term is consciously used for humorous or playful effect. But it is often perceived as insulting, implying that the partner is a burden or restriction on the other partner.

Etymology

Origin of ball and chain

An Americanism dating back to 1825–35

Example Sentences

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High prices have hobbled Americans with a ball and chain.

From MarketWatch Dec. 15, 2025

Alito offered no comment on this one, not even giving reporters a perfunctory point of the finger toward the ol’ ball and chain.

From Slate May 25, 2024

Mr. Pesce explained that, with its suggestion of a ball and chain, what was variously referred to as La Mamma, Big Mama, Donna, and the Up chair portrayed the subjugation of women.

From New York Times Apr. 4, 2024

As time went on, Veasley said her pain became like a ball and chain that got heavier and heavier.

From Salon Oct. 9, 2023

Tally took the river down the mountain carefully, the extra weight swaying below her like a ball and chain around both ankles.

From "Uglies" by Scott Westerfeld

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