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bother

American  
[both-er] / ˈbɒð ər /

verb (used with object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to annoy; give trouble to; pester.

    His little sister kept bothering him for candy.

  2. to cause unease, anxiety, or worry in (someone).

    I hadn't realized how much being in a small boat bothers me until we got into choppy waters.

    Synonyms:
    disturb, molest, irritate, vex, harass
  3. to bewilder; confuse.

    His inability to understand the joke bothered him.


verb (used without object)

  • bothers,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • bothered,
    past participle,  past
  • bothering
    present participle
  1. to take the trouble; trouble or inconvenience oneself.

    Don't bother to call. He has no time to bother with trifles.

noun

  • bothers
    plural
  1. something troublesome, burdensome, or annoying.

    Doing the laundry every week can be a terrible bother.

  2. effort, work, or worry.

    Gardening takes more bother than it's worth.

  3. a worried or perplexed state.

    Don't get into such a bother about small matters.

  4. someone or something that bothers or annoys.

    My cousin is a perpetual bother to me.

interjection

  1. Chiefly British. (used to express mild irritation.)

bother British  
/ ˈbɒðə /

verb

  1. (tr) to give annoyance, pain, or trouble to; irritate

    his bad leg is bothering him again

  2. (tr) to trouble (a person) by repeatedly disturbing; pester

    stop bothering your father!

  3. (intr) to take the time or trouble; concern oneself

    don't bother to come with me

  4. (tr) to make (a person) alarmed or confused

    the thought of her husband's return clearly bothered her

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. a state of worry, trouble, or confusion

  2. a person or thing that causes fuss, trouble, or annoyance

  3. informal a disturbance or fight; trouble (esp in the phrase a spot of bother )

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

interjection

  1. an exclamation of slight annoyance

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Synonym Usage

Bother, annoy, plague, tease imply persistent interference with one's comfort or peace of mind. Bother suggests causing trouble or weariness or repeatedly interrupting in the midst of pressing duties. To annoy is to vex or irritate by bothering. Plague is a strong word, connoting unremitting annoyance and harassment. To tease is to provoke or irritate persistently with petty distractions.

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Etymology

Origin of bother

First recorded in 1710–20; origin obscure; originally Hiberno-English; perhaps a hypercorrection of bodder, an alternative early form; perhaps a variant of pother ( def. )

Explanation

The word bother has many shades of meaning, but most of them involve trouble of some sort. You might wonder why you should bother to follow a recipe, until you taste what you've made without one. As a verb, bother can mean that you take the trouble to do something. It’s often presented as a negative: you might not bother to lock the house, or you may wonder why you should bother reading the instructions that came with your phone. Bother can also mean that you’re bugging someone or causing a minor inconvenience. The word can also have a sense of deeper worry, especially when something is bothering you, like a nagging sense of guilt.

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Do I need to bother with a Roth conversion?

From MarketWatch Aug. 17, 2026

The obvious suspect is an undiagnosed injury, even if Skenes said at the All-Star break that he wasn’t hurt and that the dip in velocity didn’t bother him.

From The Wall Street Journal Aug. 14, 2026

Only after that did Pirro bother to review the evidence and conclude the renovation was at fault.

From Salon Aug. 7, 2026

“The heat doesn’t bother me much,” he said, unloading his bicycle — a blue and yellow 1989 Trek 400 — from the trunk of his car on a side street in Reseda.

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 4, 2026

The mayor lived up there, but I hated to bother such an important person.

From "The Seven Wonders of Sassafras Springs" by Betty G. Birney

I think this really bothers a lot of young people.

From Slate Aug. 19, 2026

What bothers me is that you signed a document — we don’t even know if it was an acceptance of appointment — without reading it.

From MarketWatch Aug. 7, 2026

I can get a coffee in the morning and no-one bothers me and I think that's completely priceless.

From BBC Jul. 13, 2026

When Major League Baseball unveiled its initial batch of All-Star voting results Monday, four players from the team that so bothers the rest of America were in position to make the National League starting lineup.

From Los Angeles Times Jun. 16, 2026

“I don't know why that girl Brigit even bothers with class if she's going to do nothing,” Abina snarked.

From "The Marvellers" by Dhonielle Clayton

In a video on X, external, Count Binface - who is comedian Jonathan Harvey without the costume - said he was the "winning candidate… of the candidates who bothered to turn up".

From BBC Aug. 14, 2026

Investors don’t seem bothered by the company’s debt load; demand for its shares in the offering far outweighed supply, according to people familiar with the matter.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 29, 2026

“If she’d have gone to Lowe’s or Home Depot, it wouldn’t bother me. But you’re opening a school? That bothered me.”

From Salon Jul. 27, 2026

It bothered Lacy, a serious artist who wrote with Kendrick Lamar and earned a Grammy nomination as a teenager in the R&B collective The Internet, suddenly thrust into living meme territory with “Bad Habit.”

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 22, 2026

His mother couldn’t be bothered; talking about relationships sometimes set her off.

From "Night Owls" by A.R. Vishny

When it offered him half a song, he said, “Good enough” — without even bothering to run it through a few rounds of polishing.

From Salon Aug. 6, 2026

She said: "I would encourage people, if you've got wasps that are bothering you, just to keep calm and try and move away. If you keep calm, they will sense that and won't feel threatened."

From BBC Aug. 4, 2026

But the result is often fishy products that exist because investors aren’t bothering to do the math.

From The Wall Street Journal Jul. 27, 2026

Alana H., who asked not to use her last name, said she wasn’t even bothering to vote.

From Los Angeles Times May 17, 2026

“I think the heat’s bothering you,” said Masvita, worried.

From "A Girl Named Disaster" by Nancy Farmer

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