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condescend

American  
[kon-duh-send] / ˌkɒn dəˈsɛnd /

verb (used without object)

  • condescends,
    present (3rd person singular)
  • condescended,
    past participle,  past
  • condescending
    present participle
  1. to behave as if one is conscious of descending from a superior position, rank, or dignity.

  2. to stoop or deign to do something.

    He would not condescend to misrepresent the facts.

  3. to put aside one's dignity or superiority voluntarily and assume equality with one regarded as inferior.

    He condescended to their intellectual level in order to be understood.

  4. Obsolete.

    1. to yield.

    2. to assent.


condescend British  
/ ˌkɒndɪˈsɛnd /

verb

  1. to act graciously towards another or others regarded as being on a lower level; behave patronizingly

  2. to do something that one regards as below one's dignity

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Usage

What does condescend mean? Condescend commonly means to interact with others in a way that implies that you’re superior to them. It especially refers to when this is done in an arrogant or patronizing way—meaning when you act as if you’re doing someone a favor by supposedly lowering yourself to their level of understanding or intelligence. This sense of the word is often used with the word to and the recipient of such behavior, as in Don’t condescend to me. This sense of condescend is always used negatively and implies that such behavior is insulting to the person or people it’s directed toward. The adjective condescending is used to describe people who act in such a way, or their words or actions, as in condescending tone. Condescending often involves not only what is said but also how it’s said. A condescending tone is often one that sounds like it’s directed at a child. Condescend can also mean to stoop to a lower level or to do something that one considers as below one's dignity. A close synonym of this sense of the word is deign. The act of condescending is called condescension. Example: Why do you feel the need to condescend every time you explain something?

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Etymology

Origin of condescend

First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English condescenden, from Late Latin condēscendere ( see con-, descend); replacing Middle English condescendre, from Middle French

Explanation

A snooty waiter might condescend to serve you dinner at a fancy restaurant, meaning that he'd consider himself far too important to carry out the mundane task of delivering your hamburger and fries. You might have noticed that condescend contains the word descend, meaning to move down from a higher place. You can think of condescend as lowering yourself to do a task that you feel is far beneath you. Kings and queens would never condescend to do their own laundry at the palace, for example. If they even knew how to do the laundry, you can be sure they'd do it in a condescending, or superior, way to let everyone know that housework is no task for a monarch.

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"When I started coaching women for the first time, I did not condescend to them," said Dorrance.

From BBC Jul. 2, 2025

Don’t question the character of his backers or condescend; appeal to their interests and positive dreams.

From Seattle Times May 26, 2024

There’s a magic mailbox involved; it’s really dumb and also really great, and the two stars never once condescend to the material.

From Washington Post Mar. 24, 2023

“My my, Mr. Epstein, aren’t you on a high horse. How easy it is to condescend to and patronize a woman, especially one you imagine needs taking down a peg,” she tweeted.

From Los Angeles Times Dec. 14, 2020

“And it’s wrong of you to think that love leaves room for nothing else. It’s possible to love something and still condescend to it.”

From "Half of a Yellow Sun" by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

In the American psyche, it’s the Miss Millie story line from Alice Walker’s “The Color Purple,” about someone so blinded by a conception of her own virtue that it doesn’t register when she condescends.

From Seattle Times May 2, 2024

"Three 'verys'. Wow," he condescends, then signals her to lay her pitch on him.

From Salon May 8, 2023

Hopkins, a graduate of Winchester school and Cambridge University, condescends to his neighbors in Beadle.

From Washington Post Feb. 2, 2023

Makumbi neither preaches nor condescends, but with beautiful and subtle prose successfully captures the reader’s imagination.

From New York Times Sep. 1, 2020

The word means first—love in exercise to those who are below the lover, or who deserve something else; stooping love that condescends, and patient love that forgives.

From The Expositor's Bible: Colossians and Philemon by Alexander Maclaren

He was popular, but for a long time the critics condescended to him, calling him a lightweight Sunday painter and deriding him for his “matchstick” figures.

From The Wall Street Journal Oct. 31, 2025

Still, she never condescended to or attacked Trump’s supporters.

From Salon Sep. 18, 2024

“The consistency of the experience of going to doctor after doctor, seeking help, and being disbelieved and condescended to is really surprising to me,” Garvin said.

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 15, 2023

While Morris makes space not only for abstract painting but for other variously condescended aesthetic forms, Bradley, not having had the luxury of such freedom, makes space only for himself.

From New York Times Nov. 3, 2022

Harry took aim at it with the wand Ron had given him the previous night, which Hermione had since condescended to examine, and had decided was made of blackthorn.

From "Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows" by J.K. Rowling

Responding to a question about that at an economics conference, Bessent stated — with “a condescending smirk,” I reported at the time — “I get a feeling the American people won’t see it.”

From Los Angeles Times Aug. 6, 2026

The Danish executives “have this condescending view of American healthcare,” a former Novo staffer said.

From MarketWatch Aug. 5, 2026

The video itself has been roundly seen as damaging to Miller, who comes across as bullying and condescending, and whose rage at the situation seems to be boiling just below the surface.

From Slate Aug. 3, 2026

When he leaves, Margerison angrily describes her in his video commentary as "condescending" and complains that "they don't understand".

From BBC Jul. 30, 2026

The Odessa High fans got tired of the condescending smirks of the Permian fans.

From "Friday Night Lights: A Town, A Team, And A Dream" by H.G. Bissinger

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