Dear John
Americannoun
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a letter from a woman informing her boyfriend or fiancé that she is ending their relationship or informing her husband that she wants a divorce.
Nothing is worse for a soldier's morale than getting a Dear John.
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any letter terminating a relationship.
Etymology
Origin of Dear John
First recorded in 1940–45
Example Sentences
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Supporters of the kakariki karaka - a green parakeet - put up billboards reading: "Dear John, don't disrupt the pecking order".
From BBC ● Nov. 14, 2023
"Dear John" is like a handwritten personal note to Mayer.
From Salon ● Sep. 17, 2023
Later that evening, he finally unearthed the bank’s Dear John letter: “Financial institutions have an obligation to know our customers and monitor transactions,” it said.
From New York Times ● Apr. 8, 2023
Did anybody else find it terribly coincidental that Urban Meyer got a Dear John letter from the Jaguars on college football’s National Letter of Intent Day?
From Seattle Times ● Dec. 17, 2021
Dear John, listen, we both know it’s not working.
From "How the García Girls Lost Their Accents" by Julia Alvarez
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