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deference

American  
[def-er-uhns] / ˈdɛf ər əns /

noun

  1. respectful submission or yielding to the judgment, opinion, will, etc., of another.

  2. respectful or courteous regard.

    in deference to his wishes.


deference British  
/ ˈdɛfərəns /

noun

  1. submission to or compliance with the will, wishes, etc, of another

  2. courteous regard; respect

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Other Word Forms

  • nondeference noun

Etymology

Origin of deference

1640–50; < French déf érence, Middle French, equivalent to defer ( er ) to defer 2 + -ence -ence

Explanation

Sure you wear ripped jeans to school every day, but you don't wear them to your grandmother's house out of deference to her. When you show deference to someone, you make a gesture of respect. The noun deference goes with the verb defer, which means "to yield to someone's opinions or wishes out of respect for that person." If you and your dad disagree about the best route to the grocery store, you might defer to him, and take his route. You're taking his route out of deference to his opinion and greater experience.

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It is reading a cold transcript under a regime of extreme deference, where a claim that feels powerful can still founder if the justices conclude that Mississippi’s reading of the record was at least reasonable.

From Slate • Apr. 10, 2026

In South Asia in particular, a culture of deference, traditional social norms and gender hierarchy often prevent youth movements from succeeding.

From BBC • Apr. 5, 2026

Once fiduciaries carry out that process, they require deference from the law to fulfill properly their role as decision makers.

From The Wall Street Journal • Apr. 2, 2026

It was the first time in nearly four centuries that a senior British royal was placed under arrest, and it underscored how deference to the monarchy has eroded in recent years.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 19, 2026

He stands a head taller than the woman, but he regards her with a familial deference.

From "Kwame Crashes the Underworld" by Craig Kofi Farmer