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deferential

American  
[def-uh-ren-shuhl] / ˌdɛf əˈrɛn ʃəl /

adjective

  1. showing deference; deferent; respectful.

    Synonyms:
    reverential, obedient, dutiful, regardful, courteous

deferential British  
/ ˌdɛfəˈrɛnʃəl /

adjective

  1. marked by or showing deference or respect; respectful

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Other Word Forms

  • deferentially adverb
  • nondeferential adjective
  • nondeferentially adverb
  • overdeferential adjective
  • overdeferentially adverb
  • undeferential adjective
  • undeferentially adverb

Etymology

Origin of deferential

1815–25; after deference, by analogy with such pairs as residence: residential

Explanation

When a young person shows respect and obedience to an older person, they’re being deferential to the elder’s wisdom and experience. To be obedient, courteous, or dutiful are all ways of being deferential. Bowing low to the Queen is a deferential act when visiting Buckingham Palace. On sports teams, rookies are usually deferential to the veterans and star players, while all players should be deferential to the coach. All employees are expected to be at least a little deferential to their bosses. Being deferential shows respect, but also means "I know my place, and it's lower than yours."

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Until the 1960s, most broadcasting was dry and deferential.

From BBC • Mar. 7, 2026

"He was intensely serious but showed flashes of humour. He encouraged debate although his officers were deferential," Pike wrote in a 2019 book.

From Barron's • Jan. 12, 2026

She’s very deferential to him, clearly aiming for this goal of “OK, and I’ll take over.”

From Slate • Jan. 5, 2026

Still, the justices have been deferential to presidential powers and the outcome is uncertain.

From The Wall Street Journal • Nov. 4, 2025

His face assumes a deferential expression and he gestures broadly toward an entrance on the opposite side.

From "Water for Elephants" by Sara Gruen