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elephant in the room

American  
[el-uh-fuhnt in thuh room, room] / ˈɛl ə fənt ɪn ðə ˈrum, ˈrʊm /

idiom

  1. a problem or issue that everyone is aware of but that no one wants to talk about.

    Her dad’s depression has been the elephant in the room at family gatherings.


Etymology

Origin of elephant in the room

First recorded in 1935–40

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There’s an elephant in the room in every scene, and its lens follows the subject everywhere.

From Salon Jul. 24, 2026

Why do so few people talk about the elephant in the room?

From MarketWatch Jul. 22, 2026

When it comes to sharing his music, especially the more vulnerable tracks, Wolfhard knows his “Stranger Things” fame is the elephant in the room.

From Los Angeles Times Jul. 14, 2026

Carlo Ancelotti's news conference was coming to an end when he addressed the elephant in the room in his typically subtle, elegant way.

From BBC Jun. 13, 2026

Everywhere I go, I feel like the elephant in the room.

From "The Running Dream" by Wendelin Van Draanen

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