emotional labor
Americannoun
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the sum of small acts performed by one person to make other people’s lives more pleasant and to protect them from negativity, including hiding the effort required to do so.
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the suppression of negative emotion and the assumption of a polite and cheerful facade at work, especially by employees in the service industry, as waitstaff, flight attendants, sales clerks, etc.
Etymology
Origin of emotional labor
First recorded in 1980–85
Example Sentences
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She would be moving from being a full-time homemaker and mother, which requires physical and emotional labor, to rejoin the workforce.
From MarketWatch ● Oct. 1, 2026
Moreover, women already tend to do more than their share of emotional labor in relationships.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Aug. 30, 2026
This is emotional labor too, worrying about the next renter and the next, and the one after that.
From MarketWatch ● Jun. 9, 2026
After focusing so much emotional labor into “Submarine,” Zardoya was under the impression that sharing it with the world might help her move on.
From Los Angeles Times ● Aug. 29, 2024
She could not determine whether she was checked by fear or him, or by inertia—by dislike of the emotional labor of the "scenes" which would be involved in asserting independence.
From Main Street by Sinclair Lewis
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