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gayness

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[gey-nis] / ˈgeɪ nɪs /

noun

  1. gay or lesbian sexual orientation or behavior.

  2. Older Use. the state or quality of being bright or showy.

    the gayness of the décor.

  3. Older Use. the state or quality of being merry or lively.

    her gayness of spirit.


Etymology

Origin of gayness

First recorded in 1400–50 gayness for defs. 2, 3, and in 1950–55 gayness for def. 1; Middle English gaynesse, gainesse ; see gay ( def. ) + -ness ( def. )

Example Sentences

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And while Tierney has cleverly adapted Reid’s novel to reflect the wider gay experience more accurately, it does not depict gayness with complete authenticity simply because there is no one true way to be gay.

From Salon • Jan. 2, 2026

Your possible gayness had been a subject of debate among your students, not in a malicious way, more in a fun if gossipy way.

From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 2, 2024

According to Mr. Hoddeson, who is financing Gay Water with his own money plus backing from family and friends, his brightly colored cans are leaning into their gayness instead of avoiding it.

From Washington Times • Jul. 21, 2023

Not Manning’s gayness, which she revealed to her father only to be met with an “Okay?” as he threw up his hands.

From Washington Post • Oct. 18, 2022

“I just mean like, being as surrounded by gayness as you are—Oh God, am I allowed to say ‘gayness’?”

From "Odd One Out" by Nic Stone

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