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genteel

American  
[jen-teel] / dʒɛnˈtil /

adjective

  1. belonging or suited to polite society.

  2. well-bred or refined; polite; elegant; stylish.

  3. affectedly or pretentiously polite, delicate, etc.


genteel British  
/ dʒɛnˈtiːl /

adjective

  1. affectedly proper or refined; excessively polite

  2. respectable, polite, and well-bred

    a genteel old lady

  3. appropriate to polite or fashionable society

    genteel behaviour

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Etymology

Origin of genteel

1590–1600; < French gentil; see gentle

Explanation

Although the adjective genteel means high-class and refined, it is often used today in a somewhat mocking tone, as though good manners and elegance are passé. Still, it would be nice if more people were a little more genteel. The word genteel comes from the Old French word gentil, "high-born, noble." We can see the similarity to the word gentle, as in gentleman and gentlewoman. The word is especially powerful in describing Chaucer's Knight in the Canterbury Tales as "a verray, parfit gentil knyght" — "a true, perfect, noble knight," dignified, patrician, and as genteel as they come. Today, it describes someone elegant, fashionable, and well-bred. Picture someone in riding jodhpurs reading Town and Country while astride a magnificent show horse.

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After all, focusing resources elsewhere and letting CBS News continue its genteel decline would be sorely tempting.

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A century on, people’s perception of nonrhoticity changed again, as Irish and Italian immigrants in the American Northeast began to adopt local speech patterns, giving it a less genteel association.

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This is simply his pitch for escaping New York, but in a genteel manner.

From Salon Mar. 23, 2026

The winner Talarico, who has a Master of Divinity degree from a Christian seminary, offered a more genteel approach.

From BBC Mar. 4, 2026

You probably do not know much about this, because you have always been so closely watched by your father in that well-guarded house with your genteel mother.

From "Krik? Krak!" by Edwidge Danticat

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