grudge
Americannoun
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grudges
plural
adjective
verb (used with object)
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grudges,
present (3rd person singular)
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grudged,
past participle, past
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grudging
present participle
verb (used without object)
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grudges,
present (3rd person singular)
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grudged,
past participle, past
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grudging
present participle
noun
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a persistent feeling of resentment, esp one due to some cause, such as an insult or injury
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(modifier) planned or carried out in order to settle a grudge
a grudge fight
verb
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(tr) to give or allow unwillingly
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to feel resentful or envious about (someone else's success, possessions, etc)
Usage
What does grudge mean? A grudge is a feeling of anger, bitterness, or resentment toward someone for something they did, especially a wrong that you think they committed against you. The word grudge is typically used to refer to such a feeling when it has been held for a long period of time—often longer than is considered normal. For that reason, grudge is often used in phrases like hold a grudge, nurse a grudge, bear a grudge, and harbor a grudge. Grudges are usually directed toward people, but a person can hold a grudge against a group or an entity like a company or organization. The word grudge is often followed by the word against and whom or what the grudge is directed toward, as in Your father still holds a grudge against that pizzeria for getting his order wrong that one time. A grudge match is a competition, such as a boxing match, between opponents who have (or are depicted as having) some specific, personal reason for being bitter rivals. Less commonly, grudge can be used as a verb meaning to resent or envy someone else’s good fortune, as in Don’t grudge them for their success. The related verb begrudge can be used to mean the same thing. Grudge can also mean to give or allow with reluctance or unwillingness, as in My company has grudged me every raise I have requested. The verb begrudge doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing as this sense of grudge. Specifically, begrudge often means to be reluctant to give or allow—as opposed to meaning to give or allow reluctantly. Example: She has held a grudge against me ever since I beat her in the spelling bee in fifth grade.
Synonym Usage
Grudge, malice, spite refer to ill will held against another or others. A grudge is a feeling of resentment harbored because of some real or fancied wrong: to hold a grudge because of jealousy; She has a grudge against him. Malice is the state of mind that delights in doing harm, or seeing harm done, to others, whether expressing itself in an attempt seriously to injure or merely in sardonic humor: malice in watching someone's embarrassment; to tell lies about someone out of malice. Spite is petty, and often sudden, resentment that manifests itself usually in trifling retaliations: to reveal a secret out of spite.
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
Inflected Forms
Nouns
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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grudgesimple
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grudgessimple
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have grudgedperfect
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has grudgedperfect
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am grudgingprogressive
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are grudgingprogressive
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is grudgingprogressive
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have been grudgingperfect progressive
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has been grudgingperfect progressive
Past
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grudgedsimple
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had grudgedperfect
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was grudgingprogressive
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were grudgingprogressive
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had been grudgingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of grudge
First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English grudgen, gruggen, variant of gruchen, from Old French gro(u)c(h)ier, from Germanic; compare Middle High German grogezen “to complain, cry out”
Explanation
If you tend to hold a grudge, you don't let it go when you feel someone's insulted or wronged you. I hope you won't hold a grudge against me for bringing it up. Grudge comes from the now dead Middle English word "grutch," which meant "to complain or grumble." Someone who bears a grudge might often be grouchy. You can specify a type of grudge: political grudge, personal grudge, etc. You know Grandpa's been holding a grudge against the neighbors for years, but you have to wonder: How long can he hold that shotgun?
Vocabulary lists containing grudge
"Romeo and Juliet" by William Shakespeare, Act I
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Example Sentences
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Frederick T. Greene, a Journal subscriber since 1983, suggested that college basketball was the true home of the world’s leading grudge match.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 15, 2026
Others insisted that the 129-year-old grudge match between Ohio State and Michigan made them the best of enemies when it comes to sports.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 15, 2026
Another area of inquiry was the idea that the bomber had a grudge against the Port Authority, whose facilities had endured years of threats.
From Slate ● Jul. 7, 2026
The U.S. doesn’t hold a grudge against those who renounce citizenship.
From MarketWatch ● Jun. 17, 2026
Riddle had been harboring a grudge against Pimlico since 1926, when the track’s racing secretary had assigned his colt Crusader 126 pounds in a major race—Crusader lost to a horse carrying 93 pounds.
From "Seabiscuit: An American Legend" by Laura Hillenbrand
He said he found it a little “odd” and “extreme,” but didn’t think she held grudges, necessarily.
From Slate ● Jun. 16, 2026
In her 2019 memoir, “Where the Light Enters,” Jill contrasts Joe’s capacity for forgiveness with her proclivity toward grudges, how she recalls “every slight committed against the people I love.”
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jun. 2, 2026
He also answered no when asked if he held "any grudges" against Sir Keir or the government.
From BBC ● May 6, 2026
Despite their distance and grudges, all three bands agree to put their differences aside for a special live memorial concert in tribute to Irving.
From Salon ● Feb. 5, 2026
“Holding grudges is dangerous for a child of Hades. It is our fatal flaw. You have to forgive. You have to promise me this.”
From "The Battle of the Labyrinth" by Rick Riordan
Already during a visit to United States in 1906, he voiced his esteem for Black Americans struggling to live dignified lives within “a civilization they are grudged and denied.”
From Washington Post ● Nov. 2, 2021
“There will be some grudging specifics about medical personnel in attendance,” grudged Jan Moir in the Daily Mail, “bouncing baby weight and the actual date of birth – then the shutters will slam down.”
From The Guardian ● Apr. 18, 2019
Yet on the balance of play, few could have grudged St Mirren a replay; they harried and hassled Celtic, with Lee Mair passing up a glorious stoppage time chance to claim a draw.
From The Guardian ● Mar. 2, 2013
Patience and perseverance must never be grudged when the peace of the world is at stake.
From Time Magazine Archive
I grudged the months I had spent with her, employed by her, taking her money, trotting in her wake like a shadow, drab and dumb.
From "Rebecca" by Daphne du Maurier
The strikes have drawn grudging recognition from Russian military analysts.
From Barron's ● Jun. 10, 2026
But while the earlier work describes a futurist dystopia, “Glyph” takes place in present-day England, where the siblings Petra and Patricia Wild have reconnected after decades of grudging silence.
From The Wall Street Journal ● May 22, 2026
Sir John Wolfenden, whose 1957 inquiry concluded that sex between men should be decriminalised, was a committed Anglican, and his recommendation was couched in grudging terms.
From BBC ● Dec. 24, 2025
I don’t know if the government’s grudging confession of error played a role in the full court’s decision.
From Slate ● Oct. 31, 2025
“Nice enough until you have a nightmare,” Sarai had replied, grudging.
From "Strange the Dreamer" by Laini Taylor
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