grudge
Americannoun
adjective
verb (used with object)
verb (used without object)
noun
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a persistent feeling of resentment, esp one due to some cause, such as an insult or injury
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(modifier) planned or carried out in order to settle a grudge
a grudge fight
verb
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(tr) to give or allow unwillingly
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to feel resentful or envious about (someone else's success, possessions, etc)
Usage
What does grudge mean? A grudge is a feeling of anger, bitterness, or resentment toward someone for something they did, especially a wrong that you think they committed against you. The word grudge is typically used to refer to such a feeling when it has been held for a long period of time—often longer than is considered normal. For that reason, grudge is often used in phrases like hold a grudge, nurse a grudge, bear a grudge, and harbor a grudge. Grudges are usually directed toward people, but a person can hold a grudge against a group or an entity like a company or organization. The word grudge is often followed by the word against and whom or what the grudge is directed toward, as in Your father still holds a grudge against that pizzeria for getting his order wrong that one time. A grudge match is a competition, such as a boxing match, between opponents who have (or are depicted as having) some specific, personal reason for being bitter rivals. Less commonly, grudge can be used as a verb meaning to resent or envy someone else’s good fortune, as in Don’t grudge them for their success. The related verb begrudge can be used to mean the same thing. Grudge can also mean to give or allow with reluctance or unwillingness, as in My company has grudged me every raise I have requested. The verb begrudge doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing as this sense of grudge. Specifically, begrudge often means to be reluctant to give or allow—as opposed to meaning to give or allow reluctantly. Example: She has held a grudge against me ever since I beat her in the spelling bee in fifth grade.
Synonym Usage
Grudge, malice, spite refer to ill will held against another or others. A grudge is a feeling of resentment harbored because of some real or fancied wrong: to hold a grudge because of jealousy; She has a grudge against him. Malice is the state of mind that delights in doing harm, or seeing harm done, to others, whether expressing itself in an attempt seriously to injure or merely in sardonic humor: malice in watching someone's embarrassment; to tell lies about someone out of malice. Spite is petty, and often sudden, resentment that manifests itself usually in trifling retaliations: to reveal a secret out of spite.
Other Word Forms
Derived Forms
Inflected Forms
Nouns
Participles
Conjugated Forms
Present
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grudgesimple
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grudgessimple
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have grudgedperfect
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has grudgedperfect
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am grudgingprogressive
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are grudgingprogressive
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is grudgingprogressive
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have been grudgingperfect progressive
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has been grudgingperfect progressive
Past
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grudgedsimple
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had grudgedperfect
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was grudgingprogressive
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were grudgingprogressive
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had been grudgingperfect progressive
Future
Etymology
Origin of grudge
First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English grudgen, gruggen, variant of gruchen, from Old French gro(u)c(h)ier, from Germanic; compare Middle High German grogezen “to complain, cry out”
Explanation
If you tend to hold a grudge, you don't let it go when you feel someone's insulted or wronged you. I hope you won't hold a grudge against me for bringing it up. Grudge comes from the now dead Middle English word "grutch," which meant "to complain or grumble." Someone who bears a grudge might often be grouchy. You can specify a type of grudge: political grudge, personal grudge, etc. You know Grandpa's been holding a grudge against the neighbors for years, but you have to wonder: How long can he hold that shotgun?
Vocabulary lists containing grudge
"Romeo and Juliet" by William Shakespeare, Act I
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Example Sentences
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With just five meetings at the World Cup all-time, it doesn’t boast the long history of legendary grudge matches like Yankees vs.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 15, 2026
The U.S. doesn’t hold a grudge against those who renounce citizenship.
From MarketWatch ● Jun. 17, 2026
Certainly Dana White realized he could sell more pay-per-views by playing up personal insults and grudge matches.
From Slate ● Jun. 14, 2026
During a police interview, Lavrynovych was asked several times if he knew who Sir Keir was and whether he held a grudge against him, to which he repeatedly answered no.
From BBC ● May 6, 2026
Phineas felt a personal and sincere grudge against Caesar, and he was outraged most by his conviction that Caesar and Rome and Latin had never been alive at all .
From "A Separate Peace" by John Knowles
“I do not stand here with hatred for a desire for revenge. I hold no grudges against Mr. Jackson,” Smith said in court.
From Los Angeles Times ● Jul. 2, 2026
Traditional martial arts competitions do not revolve around personal grudges or showboating, but testing one’s skill against a worthy opponent.
From Slate ● Jun. 14, 2026
Burrows said it was not, adding: "I am not a person for carrying around grudges."
From BBC ● Mar. 23, 2026
Despite their distance and grudges, all three bands agree to put their differences aside for a special live memorial concert in tribute to Irving.
From Salon ● Feb. 5, 2026
“Holding grudges is dangerous for a child of Hades. It is our fatal flaw. You have to forgive. You have to promise me this.”
From "The Battle of the Labyrinth" by Rick Riordan
Already during a visit to United States in 1906, he voiced his esteem for Black Americans struggling to live dignified lives within “a civilization they are grudged and denied.”
From Washington Post ● Nov. 2, 2021
“There will be some grudging specifics about medical personnel in attendance,” grudged Jan Moir in the Daily Mail, “bouncing baby weight and the actual date of birth – then the shutters will slam down.”
From The Guardian ● Apr. 18, 2019
Yet on the balance of play, few could have grudged St Mirren a replay; they harried and hassled Celtic, with Lee Mair passing up a glorious stoppage time chance to claim a draw.
From The Guardian ● Mar. 2, 2013
To make Waltham pay off, he dropped the designing department, and grudged every nickel spent on advertising, thus let the name be drowned out by younger companies.
From Time Magazine Archive
To him it appeared as though his father grudged him his brief training and his natural skills.
From "The God of Small Things" by Arundhati Roy
The strikes have drawn grudging recognition from Russian military analysts.
From Barron's ● Jun. 10, 2026
A "grudging" acknowledgment that he had handled the UK's response to the Iran war well had been soured by the Lord Mandelson saga, they said.
From BBC ● May 7, 2026
My entry into the world of wearable fitness, as with much new technology, was grudging, fitful and ultimately all consuming.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Mar. 29, 2026
I don’t know if the government’s grudging confession of error played a role in the full court’s decision.
From Slate ● Oct. 31, 2025
The man named Will gave a grudging smile.
From "The Shakespeare Stealer" by Gary L. Blackwood
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