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help oneself

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  1. Make an effort on one's own behalf. Shakespeare used this expression in 2 Henry IV (3:2): “She is old, and cannot help herself,” and it also appears in the old proverb, God (or heaven ) helps those who help themselves . [First half of 1500s] Also see can't help .

  2. Serve oneself, as in The food's in the kitchen; just help yourself . When it takes an object this phrase is put as help oneself to , as in I helped myself to more meat . It also is used as a euphemism for stealing, as in She simply helped herself to the hotel towels and left . The first usage dates from the late 1600s; the second, a colloquialism, from the mid-1800s.


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Would it be legal help oneself unilaterally to food on display at 10:59 p.m. in a pizzeria that closed at 11 p.m.?

From Slate Jun. 21, 2023

To Adelheid von Schorn at Weimar Dear and honored One, When one is at a loss what to say or write, well—one tries to help oneself with music.

From Letters of Franz Liszt -- Volume 2 from Rome to the End by Bache, Constance

"You don't look to me much good for that job," said the Hare, "but in time of need one must help oneself as one can."

From The Junior Classics — Volume 8 Animal and Nature Stories by Patten, William

I have heard of that kind of thing before, but how is one to help oneself?

From Ayala's Angel by Trollope, Anthony

Altogether it was a difficult thing to ascertain or to move the will of the gods, and one must help oneself as best one could.

From The Greek View of Life by Dickinson, G. Lowes (Goldsworthy Lowes)

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