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killjoy

American  
[kil-joi] / ˈkɪlˌdʒɔɪ /
Or kill-joy

noun

  1. a person who spoils the joy or pleasure of others; spoilsport.

    I don't want to be a killjoy, but there is too much emphasis on booze during the holiday season.


killjoy British  
/ ˈkɪlˌdʒɔɪ /

noun

  1. a person who spoils other people's pleasure

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of killjoy

First recorded in 1770–80

Explanation

A killjoy is a person who spoils all the fun for everybody. You may be a killjoy if everyone’s enjoying their meal at a restaurant and you complain constantly about the terrible service. The first instance of the word killjoy was recorded in 1776, and its meaning kind of makes sense: a killjoy kills everyone else's joy. There are some other great old-style slang phrases to describe the person who pops your balloon or rains on your parade. The most popular among them are "party pooper," "wet blanket," and "stick in the mud."

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Telling a Jambo to calm down as their team strides into an eight-point lead at the top of the table is to be the worst kind of killjoy.

From BBC • Oct. 26, 2025

The Civil War, which is jeopardizing his presidency, has turned him into an utter killjoy.

From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 3, 2025

But travelers — and I’m sorry to be a killjoy — should beware: Those seemingly cheap plane tickets or hotel rooms advertised online may be a trap to make you spend more than anticipated.

From New York Times • Jun. 15, 2023

“It’s not especially that I wanted to be a killjoy, although that comes into it as well,” he adds, smiling.

From Scientific American • Nov. 23, 2022

I knew better than to not call my grandmother but I was tired of being a killjoy, and my sisters and I were back in step with one another.

From "Gone Crazy in Alabama" by Rita Williams-Garcia