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• kiss-and-tell
  kiss-and-tell

  adjective

  describing a book, article, interview, etc., in which someone publicly gives details of private interactions, especially sexual relationships.
• kiss and tell
  kiss and tell

  Betray a confidence, as in A real lady doesn't kiss and tell. This idiom originally alluded to betraying an amorous or sexual intimacy. First recorded in 1695, it is still so used, as well as more loosely, as in Don't ask how I voted; I don't kiss and tell.

kiss-and-tell

American  

[kis-uhn-tel] / ˈkɪs ənˈtɛl /

adjective

1. describing a book, article, interview, etc., in which someone publicly gives details of private interactions, especially sexual relationships.

   Many years later, she spilled all the embarrassing details of her ordeal in a bestselling kiss-and-tell memoir.

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kiss-and-tell British  

1. denoting the practice of publicizing one's former sexual relationship with a celebrity, esp in the tabloid press

   a kiss-and-tell interview

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kiss and tell Idioms  

1. Betray a confidence, as in A real lady doesn't kiss and tell. This idiom originally alluded to betraying an amorous or sexual intimacy. First recorded in 1695, it is still so used, as well as more loosely, as in Don't ask how I voted; I don't kiss and tell.

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Usage

What does kiss and tell mean? Kiss and tell means to reveal details about one’s romantic or sexual encounters, especially about the person one has had these encounters with. The phrase can also be used as a noun referring to the revelation of such details, as in The media was obsessed with the billionaire’s scandalous kiss and tell. It can also be used as an adjective, in which case it’s typically hyphenated as kiss-and-tell, as in The gossip magazines are primarily interested in kiss-and-tell stories from celebrities. All forms of the phrase can also be used more generally in the context of a person revealing private information, especially information they had been entrusted with, as in Tom asked me who I voted for, but I don’t kiss and tell. Example: In middle school, you would always know when kids had played spin-the-bottle at a party, because they would always kiss and tell.

Etymology

Origin of kiss-and-tell

First recorded in 1920–25, for an earlier sense

Example Sentences

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That last relationship eventually produced an illegitimate child and the first ever kiss-and-tell book about a president, which Britton published in 1927.

From Salon ● Sep. 17, 2022

But the Enquirer did not publish her kiss-and-tell, and she says she was tricked.

From BBC ● Jul. 21, 2018

Brzezinski went on to ruffle the feathers of Washington’s power elite with his 1983 book, Power and Principle, which was hailed and reviled as a kiss-and-tell memoir.

From The Guardian ● May 27, 2017

The result, short-term at least, will be to discourage candor in cables, just as the immediate aftermath of kiss-and-tell books is to discourage dialogue.

From New York Times ● Dec. 5, 2010

Leon Panetta has written what is being described as the latest kiss-and-tell memoir by a former member of President Obama’s Cabinet.

From Washington Post

Carr: We won’t kiss and tell in this particular case.

From Los Angeles Times ● Mar. 18, 2024

I turned down a large payday multiple times because one, I didn’t want to kiss and tell and be labeled all the things that I’m being labeled now.

From Slate ● Mar. 25, 2018

But then Sheeran admitted it by not really admitting it, saying that he wouldn’t explicitly kiss and tell — he’s a nice guy, after all — because everyone seemed to know the truth already.

From Washington Post ● Nov. 10, 2015

Regarding Mr. Moreno’s testimony that he does not kiss and tell and that he sang Bon Jovi, Mr. Kirkland also wrote, “Those lines made Moreno look like a fool.”

From New York Times ● Sep. 9, 2011

I know I said I don’t kiss and tell but I had to tell Chris because he was Chris—my dude.

From "The Boy in the Black Suit" by Jason Reynolds