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kowtow

American  
[kou-tou, -tou, koh-] / ˈkaʊˈtaʊ, -ˌtaʊ, ˈkoʊ- /
Sometimes kotow

verb (used without object)

kowtows, present (3rd person singular) kowtowed, past participle, past kowtowing present participle
  1. to act in an obsequious manner; show servile deference.

  2. to touch the forehead to the ground while kneeling, as an act of worship, reverence, apology, etc., especially in former Chinese custom.


noun

  1. the act of kowtowing.

kowtow British  
/ ˌkaʊˈtaʊ /

verb

  1. to touch the forehead to the ground as a sign of deference: a former Chinese custom

  2. (often foll by to) to be servile or obsequious (towards)

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

noun

  1. the act of kowtowing

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of kowtow

First recorded in 1795–1805, kowtow is from the Chinese word kòutóu, literally, “knock (one's) head”

Explanation

Kowtow, which describes the act of kneeling and touching one’s head to the ground to show respect, used to be a custom in Chinese culture. Now it refers to acting like you're doing that, whether you actually bow or not. Kowtow is derived from the Chinese word k’o-t’ou, which literally means “knock the head.” As a verb, kowtow has the sense of “sucking up” or "flattering." Maybe you’re wondering when it would be appropriate to kowtow. The answer? When you want to worship, show respect, gain favor, or flatter. You might need to kowtow to your teacher if you failed a test, but if you kowtow to all your neighbor's requests, you might wind up mowing his lawn all summer.

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For that reason, Iran’s officers may feel no compulsion to kowtow to Beijing.

From Slate May 7, 2026

Smaller domestic military budgets also reduce the need for companies to kowtow to politicians by maintaining unprofitable operations in their districts or supporting civilian projects.

From The Wall Street Journal Mar. 1, 2026

The need to kowtow seems to have scarred Torres.

From New York Times Feb. 29, 2024

He’s an American native and a fiercely secular one at that, but the controversy awakens something in him, a stubborn individualism and a refusal to kowtow to ignorance.

From Los Angeles Times Sep. 5, 2021

At his glance, Minli shrank to the ground in a humble kowtow.

From "Where the Mountain Meets the Moon" by Grace Lin

The head of the department is a micromanager and everyone kowtows to him.

From New York Times Mar. 18, 2023

“I had to do three kowtows to the sun,” Mr. Hunt told The Guardian.

From New York Times Nov. 16, 2022

Even when her voice is high and sweet, she never kowtows.

From The New Yorker Feb. 14, 2019

And then he watches as Katrina kowtows to the Headless Horseman, in fact saving his life but also showing her shifting allegiance.

From Los Angeles Times Oct. 21, 2014

The kings had all thrown themselves into kowtows, each swearing he would return at the Moon Festival with splendid flowers.

From "When the Sea Turned to Silver" by Grace Lin

To leave James alone on a first-round island might be unfair, but the Lakers have kowtowed to him plenty in his eight years here.

From Los Angeles Times Apr. 9, 2026

It kowtowed to every fashionable agenda to protect its independence.

From The Wall Street Journal Feb. 8, 2026

“They kowtowed to this apparent superstar with poor results.”

From Seattle Times Jan. 31, 2024

David Brent was the personification of what every person loathes about themselves when they inevitably succumb to the workforce—superficial, petty, and incompetent, just like the status quo he kowtowed to.

From Salon Apr. 28, 2016

He always made a great show of waiting on the Tates; he kowtowed to my parents when they came in.

From "The Evolution of Calpurnia Tate" by Jacqueline Kelly

Bennett argued presciently that by kowtowing to radicals, “a great university was brought low by the very forces which modern universities came into being to oppose: ignorance, irrationality and intimidation.”

From The Wall Street Journal Feb. 17, 2026

Normally, I wouldn’t suggest kowtowing to the Americans and their strange instance on measuring things their own way.

From Slate Nov. 21, 2025

Those early signs of kowtowing were bad indicators that the members of Youngstown State University’s faculty union just couldn’t get behind.

From Salon Jun. 7, 2025

"A kowtowing of the East towards the West is not a rising East."

From BBC May 1, 2025

Other males and females exhibit their submission to the alpha male by bowing before him while making grunting sounds, not unlike human subjects kowtowing before a king.

From "Sapiens: A Brief History of Humankind" by Yuval Noah Harari

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