love-hate relationship

American

[luhv-hayt ri-lay-shuhn-ship] / ˈlʌvˈheɪt rɪˈleɪ ʃənˌʃɪp /

noun

a state of ambivalence in which one feels both love and hate for someone or something.

Transylvania has something of a love-hate relationship with Dracula tourism.
The love-hate relationship between directors and actors is entertainingly dissected in this kiss-and-tell memoir from the directing frontlines.

Etymology

Origin of love-hate relationship

First recorded in 1920–25

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love-hate relationship

The co-brand cards that millions of consumers use have long been the epicenter of a love-hate relationship between large merchants and banks.

From The Wall Street Journal ● Sep. 23, 2026

But for most people in most of the world, as I’ve written previously, it’s time to move on from eight tormented decades of an increasingly fraught love-hate relationship with America.

From Salon ● Jun. 21, 2026

His love-hate relationship with fans in France continued this season in Bordeaux as he was booed in the Champions Cup final rematch, where he scored twice in defeat.

From BBC ● Feb. 20, 2026

As it took over the dating world, a lot of users now have a love-hate relationship with Tinder.

From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 14, 2025

At the same time, Mami and Papi battled each other, intruding into my fantasies with their real-life love-hate relationship.

From "When I Was Puerto Rican" by Esmeralda Santiago

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