Informal. kissing, caressing, and other sexual activity between partners that does not involve stimulation of the genitals or sexual intercourse.
  1. a molding or group of moldings between the projecting part of a capital of a column and the shaft.
  2. gorgerin.

Origin of necking

First recorded in 1795–1805; neck + -ing1




the part of the body of an animal or human being that connects the head and the trunk.
the part of a garment encircling, partly covering, or closest to the neck; neckline.
the length of the neck of a horse or other animal as a measure in racing.
the slender part near the top of a bottle, vase, or similar object.
any narrow, connecting, or projecting part suggesting the neck of an animal.
a narrow strip of land, as an isthmus or a cape.
a strait.
the longer and more slender part of a violin or similar stringed instrument, extending from the body to the head.
Building Trades, Machinery. the part on a shank of a bolt next to the head, especially when it has a special form.
Anatomy. a narrowed part of a bone, organ, or the like.
Dentistry. the slightly narrowed region of a tooth between the crown and the root.
Printing. beard(def 5).
Architecture. a cylindrical continuation of the shaft of a column above the lower astragal of the capital, as in the Roman Doric and Tuscan orders.
Also called volcanic neck. Geology. the solidified lava or igneous rock filling a conduit leading either to a vent of an extinct volcano or to a laccolith.

verb (used without object)

Informal. (of two persons) to embrace, kiss, and caress one another amorously.

verb (used with object)

Informal. to embrace, kiss, and caress (someone) amorously.
to strangle or behead.


    be up to one's neck, Informal. to have a surfeit; be overburdened: Right now she's up to her neck in work.
    break one's neck, Informal. to make a great effort: We broke our necks to get there on time.
    get it in the neck, Slang.
    1. to suffer punishment or loss: The trend is to consolidation and small businesses are getting it in the neck.
    2. to be rejected or dismissed: The employees got it in the neck when the company moved overseas.
    3. to be sharply reprimanded or scolded.
    neck and neck, even or very close; indeterminate as to the outcome: They were coming toward the finish line neck and neck.
    neck of the woods, Informal. neighborhood, area, or vicinity: Next time you're in this neck of the woods, drop in.
    stick one's neck out, Informal. to expose oneself to danger, disaster, failure, disgrace, etc.; take a risk: He stuck his neck out by supporting an unpopular candidate.
    win by a neck,
    1. to win by a small amount or narrow margin.
    2. be first by a head and neck; finish closely.

Origin of neck

before 900; Middle English nekke, Old English hnecca, cognate with Dutch nek nape of neck; akin to German Nacken, Old Norse hnakki nape of neck
Related formsneck·er, nounneck·less, adjectiveneck·like, adjective Unabridged Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2019

Related Words for necking

lovemaking, petting, caressing, embracing, fondling

Examples from the Web for necking

Historical Examples of necking

  • As with columns, the joints at base and necking are bedded in sheet lead.

  • He was interrupted in 'necking' bullets, for they were cast in a mold and left a little protuberance where the run left off.

    The Lincoln Story Book

    Henry L. Williams

  • In architectural usage, the deep groove which separates the necking of the column from the upper drum of the shaft beneath.

    History of Ancient Art

    Franz von Reber

  • Bell: That part of the capital of a column which is between the necking below and the abacus above.

  • So necking the two to my other two hosses I started for Wyoming, ninety miles away.

British Dictionary definitions for necking



informal the activity of kissing and embracing passionately
Also called: gorgerin architect one or more mouldings at the top of a column between the shaft and the capital



the part of an organism connecting the head with the rest of the bodyRelated adjectives: cervical, jugular
the part of a garment around or nearest the neck
something resembling a neck in shape or positionthe neck of a bottle
anatomy a constricted portion of an organ or part, such as the cervix of the uterus
a narrow or elongated projecting strip of land; a peninsula or isthmus
a strait or channel
the part of a violin, cello, etc, that extends from the body to the tuning pegs and supports the fingerboard
a solid block of lava from the opening of an extinct volcano, exposed after erosion of the surrounding rock
botany the upper, usually tubular, part of the archegonium of mosses, ferns, etc
the length of a horse's head and neck taken as an approximate distance by which one horse beats another in a raceto win by a neck
informal a short distance, amount, or marginhe is always a neck ahead in new techniques
informal impudence; audacityhe had the neck to ask for a rise
architect the narrow band at the top of the shaft of a column between the necking and the capital, esp as used in the Tuscan order
another name for beard, on printer's type
break one's neck informal to exert oneself greatly, esp by hurrying, in order to do something
by the neck Irish and Scot slang (of a bottle of beer) served unpouredgive me two bottles of stout by the neck
get it in the neck informal to be reprimanded or punished severely
neck and neck absolutely level or even in a race or competition
neck of the woods informal an area or localitya quiet neck of the woods
risk one's neck to take a great risk
  1. save one's neckto escape from a difficult or dangerous situation
  2. save someone's neckto help someone else escape from such a situation
stick one's neck out informal to risk criticism, ridicule, failure, etc, by speaking one's mind
up to one's neck in deeply involved inhe's up to his neck in dodgy dealings


(intr) informal to kiss, embrace, or fondle someone or one another passionately
(tr) British informal to swallow (something, esp a drink)he's been necking pints all night
Derived Formsnecker, noun

Word Origin for neck

Old English hnecca; related to Old High German hnack, Old Irish cnocc hill
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Word Origin and History for necking

1825; see neck (v.).



Old English hnecca "neck, nape, back of the neck" (a fairly rare word) from Proto-Germanic *khnekkon "the nape of the neck" (cf. Old Frisian hnekka, Middle Dutch necke, Dutch nek, Old Norse hnakkr, Old High German hnach, German Nacken "neck"), with no certain cognates outside Germanic, though Klein's sources suggest PIE *knok- "high point, ridge" (cf. Old Irish cnocc, Welsh cnwch, Old Breton cnoch "hill").

The more usual Old English words were hals (the general Germanic word, cf. Gothic, Old Norse, Danish, Swedish, Dutch, German hals), cognate with Latin collum (see collar (n.)); and swira, probably also from a PIE root meaning "column" (cf. Sanskrit svaru- "post").

Transferred senses attested from c.1400. Phrase neck of the woods (American English) is attested from 1780 in the sense of "narrow stretch of woods;" 1839 with meaning "settlement in a wooded region." To stick one's neck out "take a risk" is first recorded 1919, American English. Horses running neck and neck is attested from 1799.



"to kiss, embrace, caress," 1825 (implied in necking) in northern England dialect, from neck (n.). Cf. Middle English halsen "to embrace or caress affectionately, to fondle sexually," from hals (n.) "neck." Earlier, neck as a verb meant "to kill by a strike on the neck" (mid-15c.). Related: Necked.

Online Etymology Dictionary, © 2010 Douglas Harper

necking in Medicine




The part of the body joining the head to the shoulders or trunk.
A narrow or constricted part of a structure, as of a bone or organ, that joins its parts; a cervix.
The part of a tooth between the crown and the root.
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Idioms and Phrases with necking


In addition to the idioms beginning with neck

  • neck and neck
  • neck of the woods

also see:

  • albatross around one's neck
  • break one's back (neck)
  • breathe down someone's neck
  • dead from the neck up
  • millstone around one's neck
  • pain in the neck
  • risk life and limb (one's neck)
  • save someone's bacon (neck)
  • stick one's neck out
  • up to one's ears (neck)
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