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patronize

American  
[pey-truh-nahyz, pa‑] / ˈpeɪ trəˌnaɪz, ˈpæ‑ /
especially British, patronise

verb (used with object)

patronized, patronizing
  1. to give (a store, restaurant, hotel, etc.) one's regular patronage; trade with.

  2. to behave in an offensively condescending manner toward.

    a professor who patronizes his students.

  3. to act as a patron toward (an artist, institution, etc.); support.


patronize British  
/ ˈpætrəˌnaɪz /

verb

  1. to behave or treat in a condescending way

  2. (tr) to act as a patron or patroness by sponsoring or bringing trade to

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Usage

What does patronize mean? To patronize is to be a customer (or patron) of a business or other establishment.In this sense, patronize most often means to be a paying customer, especially a regular one. However, you can patronize establishments that are not businesses—you can patronize a library, for example.Example: I patronize local shops and restaurants whenever I can in order to support people in my own community, instead of enriching faceless corporations.Patronize also means to act condescendingly toward a person in a way that arrogantly implies that you’re being kind or helpful to that person. This often takes the form of speaking to someone as if they were a child. Someone who acts in this way can be described as patronizing.Example: Don’t patronize me, Jeff—I understand the topic just as well as you do.

Other Word Forms

  • patronizable adjective
  • patronization noun
  • patronizer noun
  • repatronize verb (used with object)
  • transpatronize verb (used with object)
  • unpatronizable adjective
  • well-patronized adjective

Etymology

Origin of patronize

First recorded in 1580–90; patron + -ize

Example Sentences

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“Don’t patronize me,” he said, still grinning as he took the turn toward her house.

From Literature

What were they doing to develop “anti-smog muffler devices”? A month later, Hahn got back the first of many testy, patronizing responses.

From Los Angeles Times

She smiled at me, more kind than patronizing.

From Literature

As outlandish as this all seems, he has never once been patronizing.

From Literature

You can empathize with your friend without demonizing your own position or patronizing her by saying everything will be OK.

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